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*3Thickness13
writes:What do you do if your partner really wants sex and you promised it to thtem but then you get on your cycle around that time. Reply to this Question
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reader, tahirah247 +, writes (14 October 2010):
*looking down* How can you people sit here and actually answer these questions like your answering an adult?? Do you ADULTS not see the age range for this person??
Honey not to sound like your mother but, Ima tell you the same thing I tell my daughter. Sex is NOT everything, right now babygirl your main focus should be school and "other" kiddish curricular activities. Trust me honey boys will ALWAYS be around for you to do those things with, but when you get involved with boys in that sort of way, girls focus seens to fall off. So right now please just focus on you and your future, and the rest will fall into place later... trust me. And if you have a boyfriend that cant respect that decision, then he doesnt have your best interest at heart, and that should really tell you its time to move on.
Sincerely,
Been there, done that, and now Im tellin you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): I don't place expectations on women. If they don't feel comfortable because of their period, I accept that. I may appreciate a BJ or something, but I don't place expectations as long as things are going OK in general. I've done the towel thing, and I'm OK with that too. Basically, I put her in the drivers seat during her period. If she wants to....great. If not, great. In a highly sexual relationship, it can actually be nice to take a break from things during "flo" and bond in other ways.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 What do you do when your partner really wants sex....
And what about you? What do YOU really want ?
If you are Ok with the idea, then just go ahead , lots of women have sex during their periods. But if for any reasons you feel self conscious or uncomfortable or turned off- what's the problem , just wait a few days.
In fact, now that I see your age , I'd say wait a few years .
Are you sure you are not being pressured into having sex ?..
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (11 October 2010):
 You can still have sex and it's actually supposed to be more sensitive for you at that time. I reccomend putting down a dark towel and just make sure it doesn't slide out from underneath you and it will be just fine. I am assuming that he knows that the blood does spread a bit but its not that bad at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2010): Tell him to read up on the risk of developing cervical cancer for a girl your age.
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