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female
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writes:*OP's own title*My parents won't let me go out with a boy i am in love with (even though I'm 13).They gave me no explaination 4 it. He's a gentleman, takes care of his family, respects all women, and isn't much older than me. What to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 April 2010):
How much older?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 I guess your parents just think that at 13 you are too young to date, period. Gentleman or not gentleman.
I think they would not mind , or at least they would turn a blind eye, if you were hanging out with a bunch of friends and among them you had a favorite boy that you flirt with and kiss. But going out on dates ? As a couple ? At 13 ? Come on- it's to early for being emotionally and psychologically able to manage a serious relationship. And if it were just for casual, sexual fun - that too, can, and must, wait .
Talk to your parents if you wish, but respectfully and non-confrontationally. They just want you protect you from being used or emotionally hurt, which , at your age, is far from inpossible.
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