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writes:hi need help!!!! well i met this guy a few weeks ago when i was out in a club to be honest with you iv known since i was 13yrs old but recently bumped into him we swapped numbers and met up when we were out thing progressed but when it came to going home he would leave without saying bye!! so id text him and say why do you do that everytime? get no reply.... whats going on???? its not as if im gunna jump on him i'v told him that. any way not heard owt from him for 3 weeks then out of the blue he texts saying he misses me .... (sorry for going on) buts thats the problem i cant say i missed him too as iv been messed about by blokes so many times when i tell them how i realy feel .... what can i do .....?
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reader, carla3683 +, writes (11 May 2007):
carla3683 is verified as being by the original poster of the question hi every one thanks for your help and advice this situaion of mine is still going on but its getting better i think the problem was that he is a bit shy as iv cooled down he been more interested in meeting me and also we have been talking alot on the phone so im just gunna let things go the way it goes if it happens it happens thanks again xxxx
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reader, londongirl +, writes (14 March 2007):
I think you need to decide first of all what you want from this guy, is it just casual or would you like something more? It sounds like you might want something more. I'm not one for playing games but you could use some tactics when you respond. Wait a couple of days before you txt him back, keep the tone of the txt light, 'hi, how are you, good to hear from you'. I'd go with something jokey like 'you must be bored if you're missing me!' and follow it up with a flirty 'if you don't want to be bored any more give me a call'. You have to be prepared for the fact he's not after anything serious so don't go laying your heart on the line until you get to know him a bit better & can suss him out. Good luck!!
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reader, nicola79 +, writes (14 March 2007):
 He is either shy or he is messing you around sweety, either way this relationship doesnt sound right to me!!!!
If you are wanting this to work you need to talk to him and find out what he is wanting out of it? and if its not the same as you want then you should leave it as friends love.
Just talk to each other and its better to know now rather than later. I hope you find what you are wanting.xxxxxxx
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