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After 10 years of no contact, my son's dad got in touch and then hasn't responded again. What do I do?

Q.   my son's dad as got intouch after 10years..... well my sons dad as made contact over Facebook after 10 years of being absent. i agreed to meet and talk about things. He cancled the meet the night before i thanked him for letting me know and not ...

A.   18 June 2012: hi thank you for you advice, he does pay csa not enough mind but still pays..... its all confusing how do i tell my ten year old son (again) that his dad is not interested it will break his heart so i feel i have to keep trying till he eventual... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and friend don't get along... Help!

Q.   hi, I'm kind of stuck between my friend and my bf. I've planned to go out with my friend in 2 weeks time, my problem is that I've recently got back together with my ex and they dont get on with each other, i don't know why. It's very hard as i r...

A.   14 September 2009: oh just waneted to add that iv planned to go out with my friend just her but my bf will be around as he goes to the same clubs as we do x ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 would it be alright for a 20 year old guy to ask me out?

Q.   Well I am 17 years old and I am talking to a 19 year old guy who will soon be 20 in a couple of days..at first we were just talking as friends but later we both ended up having feelings towards each other...We haven't hung out or anything like that ...

A.   29 May 2008: hey there you in the same situation as me!! apart from im 24 n hes 18 im also confussed wether its right or not!! think im more worrid what others will say as an older man with a younger woman seems to be fine in other peoples eyes but the other way ... (read in full...)

My guy doesn't seem interested anymore. What do you think?

Q.   Hi there, well could anyone help me. Ive been with this bloke for 5 months now and yeah i really like him, but recently hes been messing with ma head. Two weeks ago we had a big arguement over another girl (i was drunk) well after that ngt i text...

A.   7 September 2007: hi there thanks for all your advice and will update you all later thanks xxx ... (read in full...)

We just have sex, but now I want more. How do I tell him?

Q.   hi well iv known this guy for 10years now we have always had sex when we see each over but think im falling for him now and wanting more. how do i tell him when he can disserpear for months then just turn up?...

A.   30 August 2007: hi all well i left it up to him and he never bothered coming back so ill just have to move on thanks for sll your advice xxxxx... (read in full...)

Where are all the honest men?

Q.   This question is for all the guys, male, testosterone driven individuals. I have had bad experiences in my life with boyfriends. I have had the cheaters, liars, players, you name it. My current boyfriend happens to be a big liar. I am loosing my ...

A.   30 August 2007: well i pritty nuch agree with you love i know how it feels to be with a liar, cheat and a player my last seven years relationship was with a guy who was all three of the above and so have the rest of them been it seem where just alike all i can say ... (read in full...)

What can I say to this guy? I hear nothing for 3 weeks then out of the blue I get a text from him saying he misses me!

Q.   hi need help!!!! well i met this guy a few weeks ago when i was out in a club to be honest with you iv known since i was 13yrs old but recently bumped into him we swapped numbers and met up when we were out thing progressed but when it came to going ...

A.   11 May 2007: hi every one thanks for your help and advice this situaion of mine is still going on but its getting better i think the problem was that he is a bit shy as iv cooled down he been more interested in meeting me and also we have been talking alot on ... (read in full...)

We just have sex, but now I want more. How do I tell him?

Q.   hi well iv known this guy for 10years now we have always had sex when we see each over but think im falling for him now and wanting more. how do i tell him when he can disserpear for months then just turn up?...

A.   21 March 2007: hi all just a update on my situation well i have finely told him last night how i feel about him and now i feel better for it too... well his replie to it was that he carnt belive iv fallen for someone like him and why havent i told him before so ... (read in full...)

Why does she always agree to meet up and then never show!?

Q.   dear readers im currently having a problem with a girl. i met her online and we talk when ever shes on and also talk to her on the phone aswell. i have asked her to meet up with her and she goes yes but then never shows up and comes up with ex...

A.   19 March 2007: hi there it sounds like she may be a bit scared to meet you as you have only spoke on line and over the phone you may need to think what it is you want from this girl? and if you really want to see her you wont mind waiting untill she is ready to ... (read in full...)

We just have sex, but now I want more. How do I tell him?

Q.   hi well iv known this guy for 10years now we have always had sex when we see each over but think im falling for him now and wanting more. how do i tell him when he can disserpear for months then just turn up?...

A.   4 December 2006: thanks mickey dont know how to tell him but i get what ur saying think im scared hed run a mile so im just playing it safedue t past relationship. will try tho thanks again.... (read in full...)

I am not ready to be fingered yet - but I don't want to offend him! How do I tell him?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for a while, and I really like him, but he really really wants to finger me. I've never let anyone do that to me before, so I'm not ready, but I feel bad telling him because I'm afraid he'll be offended. How do i tell him ...

A.   4 December 2006: hi there if this was me i would just tell him you dont want him to do it and if he truely loves you or even respects you he wont get offended by it and if he dose get offended let him cos no one shuold pressure you into doing somthing you are not ... (read in full...)

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