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writes: Hi all.. Last weekend my friend and I got into an argument. It wasn't the first one and I was overall fed up with her bullsh*t, so I told her I'm done with her and got an app on my phone to block her. Well, I can still see what she says as long as I click on the app and she has sent 20+ text messages while I haven't said one word back. When will she stop or what can I say to make her just quit? I thought ignoring her would be enough and eventually after no responses, you think one would understand. Also, we're both in our 20's.. definitely feels like high school though. Any advice? Thanks in advance.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 So don't click on the app. She'll get tired of trying to contact you eventually if you keep ignoring her!
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (17 March 2012):
 Yes, definitely sounds like high school! What a lousy situation.
I'd just keep ignoring her. She'll settle down soon. If you write back, you'll only be encouraging her and rewarding her persistence.
Good luck!
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reader, adamskidude  +, writes (17 March 2012):
 Talking is usually the best way to resolve problems. Otherwise, if their pestering you isnt actually affecting you, then just let them do it until they turn blue, they'll get bored eventually.
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reader, uroboros +, writes (17 March 2012):
adults do not end friendship the way u did. u say she was your friend so treat her this way, regardless on what she did she deserves a conversation and at least a few words to make sense of what happened.
at least text her back explaining how u feel around her, and that it's not working for you anymore. maybe she's not aware of how much she hurt you/pissed you off.
good luck.
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