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What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex?

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Question - (30 November 2006) 13 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2011)
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What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex ? Is there certain spots that will drive him nuts ???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2011):

well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 year he works a lot sometime you just have to let him know your still hot for him im more open minded to thing than most ive had threesomes with another girl with him anything to keep him happy you just have to do things like the other night he got home i was in this sexy outfit 5 inch Stiletto Heel ,Stockings slutty makeup the hole thing he walked in and i had on a robe on and ask me what was for dinner i turn and started walking away as i toke off the robe and looked over my shoulder and said me you just have to keep thing fun the longer your together just find what he like and try it he will return it later and never say no tell you try it at lest give it a try

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A female reader, sexaddddx69 United States +, writes (6 May 2011):

Well i've been with my guy for 7 years and two things that never get old or boring is oral to each other first do it to him and while your doing it look up at him a couple of times just seeing his reaction turns you on and him as well enough to return the favor that is ....and if he's not into that let him give you a rub down there i mean that really turns my guy on and if your a moaner that excites him even more then let him slip it in and the sex will be amazing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011):

I don't know my boyfriend loves hair pulling not enough to pull his head back but enough that he feels it. He also loves it when he's busy on his laptop and im sitting beside him on his bed teasing him into it. But really i think the most important thing if you want sex more enjoyable talk about it with him. Because who knows he's most likely trying to spice things up to. But depending on the guy some guys like the whole pain thing during sex dont ask me why because i still dont understand the either. But if you want to turn him on try his neck, ear, and callor bone they almost never fail. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2011):

I place ma guy down,start fondlin,kissin,get hold of the penis suckin it makes him crazy nd I insert it in wit my own hands normally,i sit on top and drive him and do my own thing.try them wit ya guy.lol.

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A male reader, havingsex United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2010):

Trust me I'm a guy I like sex one way, I agree with dianalynn1821 but My girl goes straight for the penis, it feels the best to have someone licking and suckin your penis! oh and if your a guy just go for the boobs., Bourne + is SOOOOOOOOO WRONG! go for the BOOBS or PENIS sucking and licking is the best.WE LIVE FOR SEX!

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A female reader, dianalynn1821 United States +, writes (21 November 2009):

dianalynn1821 agony aunt First be enthusiastic!! Make it look like you'd want nothing more then to rip his clothes off. Sometimes talking dirty will add to the fire. Guys love a girl that knows what shes doing in bed. Foreplay too, dont just go straight to sex, make him wait a little. Build the intensity up! Now for spots that'll make him go crazy; When giving oral, always have your hand doing something!

Ex: 1st-Place your thumb and index finger into an OK around the base of his penis...this adds pressure and helps to climax faster. 2nd-Rubbing the spot between his penis and anus is a major point of pleasure, trust me. 3rd- don't ever leave his balls out, lick and suck them too but this will either be amazing for him or too much so make sure he likes it, most likely he will! 4th- dont use teeth unless your very very good, its just to risky. 5th-Look like your enjoying it, moan and look up at him and smile a couple of times. They'll love it!

Now for sex, guys never really think about how fat your thighs may be or how small your boobs are, they are just happy to be in that wonderful moment. The sexier you act, the better the sex will be. Nothing turns on a guy more then to see a girl just totally enjoying sex with him. Make noises, talk dirty!! Try different positions in different places. And be spontaneous. Suprise him a couple of times when he's least expecting it.

Now for the climax, dont spit it out! No No! Guys dont like to see that. Swallowing is best, but if you just dont want to try having him at least go somewhere sexy on you such as your stomach or chest.

And just remember, act like its the greatest sex you've ever had, and it just might turn out to be ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009):

I feel its all about teasing and seduction, give him a lap dance with nothing on and c how he will b ready for whatever

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A female reader, Felina Portugal +, writes (18 November 2008):

Felina agony aunt Hi there!I realy love to have sex,and along my experience,I have learned several things about men in bed.

There are many spots that will drive him nuts when touched but that will depend on the man,and on the intimacy of your relationchip.But I think you will drive him crazy working his head,and not his body.Find out his fantasies,and when you do,grab the most dirty one,and then make up a story based on it and whisper it to him.While you do that,touch him slowly and gently.This will drive him crazy,and it will take your intimacy to another level.Then,try to make some of his and your own fantasies come true.

This way you will be able to slowly enter his hot and dirty mind,and it will drive YOU nuts!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2008):

Ive been with my man for four years and our sex life has never died down. Im a little more exhausted for it but he's still begging for it like if its still something new. My secret is be a freak. Ive calmed down alot, but I still give him a blow job after carressing his entire body now and then. Another thing I learned he loved wasnt just sexy outfits but thong underware. I always buy new thongs and suprise him by stripping down after our child is asleep and teasing him. Guys love girls back ends and any girl that is willing to put on a thong and bend over in front of them is sure to drive them crazy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007):

Dont ask me, Im still trying to find out for my damn self... It takes me dragging him into bed and begging for it and iv been with my man for 4 years....

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A male reader, Bourne +, writes (19 December 2006):

Bourne agony auntNothing turns a man on more, then knowing that he is loved and accepted. The movies make it seem like all guys care about is physical pleasure. But in real life, a guy wants to know he is loved. Tell your man why you love him. Tell him how it feels to you when he makes love to you. Tell him how much you enjoy it when he does certain things to you that drive you wild (great for his ego).

Ask him what his fantasies are and then make one come true.

Men also love spontaneity. If he's driving you somewhere, reach over and being to fondle him. If your comfortable with oral, then give him a bj in the car too.

Go out for dinner wearing a skirt and then half way through dinner lean over the table and whisper to him that you've forgotten to put your undies on that night. He will think that you've done it FOR HIM and will think "wow, this girl loves me."

As for spots on his body that drive him nuts? When you get your guy really turned on, either from sex or oral, rub the area between his scrotum and anus. There is muscle there that feels really good when he is turned on push him over the edge.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (1 December 2006):

TasteofIndia agony auntIf you're looking for yoru man to jump you bones one day, it's all about the teasing. Before he goes to work, say something like, "I can't wait until you get home so we can get dirty..." maybe slip him a dirty note in his pocket. Text message him once or twice during the day just to tease him.

When he gets home have a deliciously sexy (and light... light is important or it'll backfire and he'll pass out) meal on the table and be wearing something OUTRAGEOUSLY sexy. Just a teddy or better yet - naked.

By then he should be going crazy. Then, after you're done eating, go to his chair, and start giving him a lap dance. Don't let him touch you, just drive him crazy until he drags you into the bedroom and gives you the night of your life!!

have a suupperrr good night!

xxIndia

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2006):

You're asking us how to pleasure your man? [sigh] Okay, FIRST, OPEN COMMUNICATION between you and him. A HUGE PART OF SEX is listening, reacting, and understanding, as well as lots of practice. Talk with your guy while you two are cuddling, watching a movie together. When you two are kissing, touch him where you think he will like, and ask him if he likes it, or notice how he reacts to your touches. When you're blowing him or jerking him off, make eye contact, see how he's doing.

Be perceptive, and if you cannot, then be verbal. 8]

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