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What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex?

Q.   What can I do to make my guy go crazy over sex ? Is there certain spots that will drive him nuts ???...

A.   19 December 2006: Nothing turns a man on more, then knowing that he is loved and accepted. The movies make it seem like all guys care about is physical pleasure. But in real life, a guy wants to know he is loved. Tell your man why you love him. Tell him how it ... (read in full...)

He wants anal sex and I'm scared of the pain it will cause me...what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to have anal sex, but when ever he even buts his fingers up my anus it really hurts and i do not enjoy it because it hurts me, so im just nervous about when it actually comes to having anal sex because i just know that its going ...

A.   19 December 2006: There is nothing wrong with anal sex. It is another form of intimacy which, between two consenting and loving people, can be very pleasurable. Sounds like this is a technique problem. Don't do anal sex until you are comfortable and enjoy hi... (read in full...)

I'm 15, he's 18 - is a relationship between us illegal?

Q.   Hey i'm 15 years old and this guy i like from school just turned 18. He claims to like me too.I'm not sure if he can get in trouble if we decide to start a relationship.Is this illegal?...

A.   19 December 2006: There's no law in the world governing who you can and can't date. Now, sexually, yes it is illegal. Here in the U.S. he can go to jail for having sex with a minor and for the rest of his life have to register as a sex offender. So if you want... (read in full...)

My gf keeps lashing out at me and saying I helped to split her and her ex, so I should hurt, too!

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend of 3 yrs 2 months ago and is with me. We've known each other for about a year and i liked her straight way and she liked me but she was with the other guy. The relationship she was in wasnt good so she kinda ...

A.   19 December 2006: When shes ready to start respecting you then your ready to continue the relationship. Tell her one time that you love her and your sorry she's hurt but you didn't MAKE her break up with her ex, that was her choice. Her ex is manipula... (read in full...)

What can I do to have a flat stomach?

Q.   I'm a teenage girl who is (i'll be honest!) not very attractive! But i know i'd be much happier with the way i look if i could just lose the weight on my stomach. I'm 5"4 ish and I weigh about 10 stone. I'm not that overweight on the rest of my ...

A.   19 December 2006: First off, don't make your happiness depend on what others think about you or the size and shape of your body. You need to be happy that your you. Love who you are and your body. Its the one that God gave you and be thankful for that. Second, f... (read in full...)

I want to break up with her, but it's the holidays! What's the best way to do this?

Q.   Hi I have a bit of a relationship dilemma that I need some advice with. I've been with my girlfriend now for nearly 5 years (this January) and things aren't going great between us. We don't have a lot in common, alot of her personal habits/...

A.   19 December 2006: You aren't married to her. You need to tell her that you want to break up. Tell her that your sorry she is upset but that you don't have the same feelings for her anymore. Be as gentle and kind as you can. Don't attack her character, just let ... (read in full...)

How do I lose weight while I have a leg injury?

Q.   dear cupid i am have a problem as i need to lose weight as im getting made fun by people who are not fat, losing is a huge problem as i am not allowed to run or do any sort of sport with my leg as i have had an injury, and am not allowed to walk ...

A.   19 December 2006: Also try the bicycle machine or maybe rowing machine? On either machine you can favor your other leg and not use your injured one very much. You can also work on your upper body strength while your leg heals. Muscle mass burns more calories... (read in full...)

Feeling guilty as he was so nice to me and now I have to tell him..I don't want to go out with him!

Q.   hi i have a big problem! im friends wiv this boy (not close friends) but talk sometimes. and i found out he fancies me and i told his mate i think i fancy him a bit too. cos i thought i did. anyway, we arranged to meet up just to get to know eac...

A.   19 December 2006: You have to be honest with your heart. If you don't feel anything for him, then you can't make yourself like him. Sit down with him and tell him what you just told us. Make sure you tell him that you really appreciate his kindness but you just... (read in full...)

Being friends with my ex gf is messing with my head...should I just let her go?

Q.   Recently me and my gf broke up 3 months ago, we were together for 3 years and it just ended. Well after three months she starts calling me and asking me if i want to go out and eat with her. I would call her acouple times and she would always tell ...

A.   19 December 2006: Tell her how you feel, and then ask her if theres any chance of getting back together. You need to decide if you can continue to be her friend without feeling like it has to lead to a relationship. You said in your question: "... I comfort ... (read in full...)

After we spend the day together, should I tell my close friend that I like her? She says her bf doesn't care about her.

Q.   me and my very close friend are both 16. she is just an amazing friend. i fancy her. i'm goin on holiday for 4weeks which is a very long time. the day before i'm takin my friend on the day out out of town shopping as it's christmas. on the way back ...

A.   19 December 2006: I would first find out why she is in a relationship that she doesn't like?!? That maybe a warning sign of how this girl handles relationships. You want your friendship to survive above all. Tell her that you really value your friendship with her... (read in full...)

I'm afraid to give oral - what if I don't like it or do it wrong?

Q.   I am 17 years old and me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 6 months and we have sex regularly, but when we got round to oral sex i just couldnt do it. I really wanted to take him in my mouth but i had a mental block against it, ...

A.   19 December 2006: One way to overcome the mental blocks is to do a graduated approach. Start first by touching it. Then when you feel comfortable maybe start kissing lightly on the outside in between touches. Then maybe lick or suck on the outside. And finally ... (read in full...)

When I'm on top during sex, I have an awful shooting pain going up my spine and into my head. Has anyone heard of this before?

Q.   OK - ive got an embarrassing sex question. So ive had this problem a few times now - im quite worried but a bit too embarrassed to go to the docs yet. When i am on top during sex when I orgasm I get the most awful shooting headache pain, i ...

A.   19 December 2006: You are probably hitting a nerve somewhere in your back. Have you talked to your doctor about this? Its possible you might have an injury or problem with your spine. This might be an indication that something else is wrong, not just a problem ... (read in full...)

Are condoms as effective if used when in a pool?

Q.   This is a stupid question, I know, but are condoms as effective if used when in a pool? (The kind we're using has spermicide; I'm not sure if chlorine will have any effect of it's effectiveness.) See, I've just gone off the pill because it was ...

A.   19 December 2006: No, condoms are not AS effective when use in a pool. There is an increased risk in condom breakage due to the chlorine in pool water. Besides, sex in a pool is not very fun, most of the lubrication (either natural or from the condoms) rinses a... (read in full...)

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