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writes:I would like the ladies input on this one.Whenever I have sex, I like to ensure that my lady comes, either by manual or oral stimulation. I used to be a big believer in "the lady comes first" and then we'd have full sex. Now I'm not so sure. I wonder if the lady is more turned on and passionate during sex if she hasn't just orgasmed a minute or two before?Do you prefer to come first?Come after?Come during sex (I try:- but sometimes it doesn't happen for the lady during the humpy-pumpy bit)Thanks!!!!
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reader, forgetmenot +, writes (14 December 2006):
 I don't think she has to EVERY time but all too often if the lady doesn't get to go first she doesn't get to at all. For those times it's just not happening for her though, don't let it be too big a deal and just enjoy yourselves
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reader, Aunt Charlene +, writes (30 November 2006):
 well it depends wat ur doin i mean if we av 69 then my bf cums 1st usually,if its 1 at a time he goes dwn on me 1st so its always me first then. if we av full on sex, he gives me oral 2 get me wet but cums during sex or just after then he gives me oral, so its usually my bf 1st.
remember its not a race to see who cums first and women can still be pleasured even if they do not cum, its stimulation that we like the best not the grande finale because we get the most attention and pleasure then.
i dunno about men bein worn out after sex, im the one that falls asleep straight after which my bf doesnt realy like cos he wants 2 cuddle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2006): I think, personally, it is best if the woman comes first, cos the bloke is usually finished once he comes so that is the end of the show!
take care
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reader, jabey +, writes (30 November 2006):
majority of women dont come through penetration alone, so well done to you for doing the oral and stimulation thing. I think most women do like to come first also we realise that after you have come you often feel pretty worn out so probably not up to then making us come. I find my boyfriend has got it right by giving me oral then sometimes pumpimping away and then returning to oral and once I have come we can both relax and enjoy the sess as he has no pressure then to last a l;ong time. Also I still feel turned on even after I have come and still love him being inside me. Alot of pleasure for us all is knowing we are giving it aswell as receiving it. So your right keep up the good work.
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