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What can I do to keep my Bf? His parents want him to marry a richer higher status girl than me,

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Question - (21 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *ani123 writes:

hi all

I have being going out with my bf for 5 years now.His parents were quite happy with our relationship and gave permission to continue it

how about two years back his parents changed all of a sudden.. turned out to be rude and asked my bf stop this affair for good

They even called my dad and asked him to make me stop this affair

When i asked my bf what happened all of a sudden he said that they expect him to marry a very rich high class girl

they are doing everything to brainwash him

Actually i am also a rich girl and our family backgrounds are also same..

however their family status is higher than ours

His parents used to come to my place for parties and all ..now they are so against this relationship

But my bf didnt listen to them now we are still having this affair secretly

Is there a solution for this? Will his parents chnage again or is there anything that i can do ?

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A male reader, Seraph South Africa +, writes (21 April 2011):

well i think he shouldn't keep this a secret to his familly,that's if he realy loves u and u do appear in his future plans,and if his familly loves and respects him,they will have to listen and learn to accept u coz after all u and his familly share one thing in common,which is the love u all have for this guy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011):

You don't need ANYONES permission to continue a relationship. You live in Western society, not the goddamn middle east.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2011):

Well u should say : back off! This is my and his decision and no one can tell us other wise. It's our life so let us choose why we want to do with it! I wish u the best of luck!

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