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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm friends by email with this guy who btw is military (Air force). We met in person a while back in one of his missions. We flirted and I could sensed he liked me btw he looked at me and flirted with me.We actually treated like if he knew from long time ago. But....he left after wards, so we started keeping in touch.Now, the point of my question is being so far is hard to get people to tell you things you may want to know from each other. I guess b/c we didn't had time to hang out he could be more reserve about his things. I, myself am. He's not an email guy, I know he makes a big effort to write to me cuz he never does anyone else, so I've heard. I would like to know when his bday is, how many kids he have (the guy's divorced) and I have asked but he kinda like ignore the questions and talk about something else or won't reply when I ask.What can I do, cuz I really like him and LDR are hard. We are friends I know that well. He had said he enjoys our friendship and comms, but I wonder if that's for real, since I have to cope with what he wants to talk about.What can I say to him in order for him to open up to me.
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reader, chloe71z  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 just send him one e-mail and the only thing you put in the e-mail is " When is your Birthday?" and try to get him to call you and you can just ask him in person. Send him a phone card so he has no excuse why he cant call you when he is on leave anyway. Also to find out the answers to your other questions do the same.OR you could write him letting him know how you feel, and that you would really like to be art of his life but without this knowledge it kida keeps you in the dark.
Good Luck and GOD BLESS.
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