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What are your thoughts on a 24 y/o male masturbating to pictures of a 16 y/o girl?

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Question - (25 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 February 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What are your thoughts on a 24 year old male masturbating to pictures of a 16 year old girl?

There is a girl I know that is 16 year old and I have masturbated to the thought of her. She is very cute and quite nice. I would never do anything with her in the real world because of our age but I like masturbating to the thought of her. Is there anything wrong with just masturbating to the thought of her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009):

It's actually very normal, most guys have done it, especially when we were 16 too. Nothing wrong with it at all and it's very common, "teens" is the most popular porn niche afterall and the schoolgirl uniform is the most popular roleplay costume, you can't help who you're attracted to and fantasy is not illegal. Besides 16 might be the legal age of consent in your state.

HoneyPie's argument is completely illogical, you're not objectifying her by masterbating to the thought of her, that's a ridiculous notion, what are we supposed to think about while masterbating, the weather?

By her logic we objectify women when we masterbate to our mental image of them, makes no sense to me. Even if it did, whats the harm in "objectifying" someone for five minutes in a fantasy?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009):

Well people have argued about this before, but you are a human being with a free will and the ability to think about your actions, reflect on them, and make decisions in an intelligent way.

You aren't the first guy to get off thinking about a 15 year old girl. This doesn't make you a bad person, or even a person who wants to sleep with a 15 year old girl. So long as it stays in your head, it's nobody's business but your own. This is what people have fantasies for. So long as you can trust yourself to act in a responsible and adult way in the "real world" there is no reason why you can't have a little fun in the privacy of your own thoughts!

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (25 February 2009):

Honeypie agony auntFirst of I think it's natural for us to find others sexually acttrative, however you need to think here. What is it about her you find so much of a turn on?

I think you should not do it. For the simple reason that you condition your brain to think 16 year old girls are sexual object. Yes, you mastubating to her picture is objectifying her. Use you brain, man. Have a little imagination. Come up with something better.

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