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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): well i think you should wait alittle longer but if you are comfertable with him doing that then theres no stoping that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2007): dpes getting fingerbanged by your boyfriend mean that you arent a virgin? when a guy fingerbangs a girl does he pop her cherry?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2007): Hi! Well I'm 16 years old and I think that you should wait a til you are older. because let me tell you something, one think leads to another one. but I think that what you are doing with your boyfriend is better and safer than sex....so enjoy
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2007): I assume theres nothing wrong with it as long as your comfortable, and make sure he doesnt have any sperm on his fingers or anything of that nature. Otherwise if you want that sex pleasure then thats the best way to go at this age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): I think at your age, no. Wait a little longer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2007): hi there thanks for answering my question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2007): I agree with Jtaunton just make sure he's clean and not have long nails, and I know it feels better when someone else does it for you.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (11 May 2007):
 Okay, the physical risks are that you could get a sexual transmitted disease such as genital warts or herpes both of which are treatable but incurable The mental side effects are more dangerous. You will probably feel pressured into sleeping with him. To be honest, and I really don't want this to sound patronising, the fact that you had to ask what the risks were show you don't really understand sex and what it's about and if you don't understand it you shouldn't be doing anything sexual. I know that you're probably thinking I don't know what I'm talking about and I'm convinced that if you think you're ready you'll carry on doing these things regardless but the best thing you could do if you choose not to take my advice is to visit a family planning clinic to talk about how to keep sex safe.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (11 May 2007):
Okay, the physical risks are that you could get a sexual transmitted disease such as genital warts or herpes both of which are treatable but incurable The mental side effects are more dangerous. You will probably feel pressured into sleeping with him. To be honest, and I really don't want this to sound patronising, the fact that you had to ask what the risks were show you don't really understand sex and what it's about and if you don't understand it you shouldn't be doing anything sexual. I know that you're probably thinking I don't know what I'm talking about and I'm convinced that if you think you're ready you'll carry on doing these things regardless but the best thing you could do if you choose not to take my advice is to visit a family planning clinic to talk about how to keep sex safe.
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reader, jtaunton5410  +, writes (11 May 2007):
 Wow!! you sound like me. I am 20 years old and when I was 13 I let a guy finger me for the first time. It acually hurt because he was being really rough with his hands. You are 13, its ok to experiment. I would suggest waiting to have sex though. So let him do it but tell him what feels good. There arent too many risks except if his hands are dirty with bacteria on them. make sure he washes them first. Oh and you dont want him to have long nails or else he will scratch you and make you bleed a little. Just tell him to go slow and put your hand on his to guide where you want it to go. Enjoy, girl.
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