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writes: I will give some background. I am a single parent and my son has just finished college. From my son attending college I have gotten to know his roommate. He is also from a single parent family. Over the four years his roommate and I have become closer. He first started to think of my home as a second home. Then he and I have talked about more personal things. We have gone out together and had a lot of fun. For finishing college I give my son a trip. I also want to give something special to his roommate. I hinted indirectly about the kind of thing that he would like for a gift. He then hinted back that the best gift would be to have sex with me. I am flattered that he thinks that I am eye-catching and that he sees me as being sexual attractive. I am of course older than him. However, I do think that he is cute. I am considering giving him this gift. I think my son is ok with it. He has a girlfriend and will be going on a trip. What are some things to consider when thinking about this? If we were to do it I think we would do it while my son is on the trip. Best,Maria
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (26 August 2008):
wEll firstly, I'd find out what your son thinks, just in case he takes it badly. ASk him, maybe in a half joking way about yourself and his friend seeing eachother and see his reaction.
If you're sure having sex wouldnt harm your relationship with your son or friendship with his housemate, then go for it. You are all consenting adults and as long as no-one hets hurt then theres nothing to worry about, regardless of age.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (24 August 2008):
 erm well from the view im looking at is that it could ruin the relationship you have now and you may not be able to have the same as it would only be a gift and not something full time. plus im not sure if your son would be happy or not it is something you would have to ask but its a fifty fifty on that..and if in the end you want to do it ask yourself to tell your son or not and if you dont then do it when he is on his trip..maybe as his roommate if their is something else he desires than that.. i know its nice that he would want such a thing but are you sure he was being serious or was it a confident boost? good luck aphexy xx
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