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writes:My boyfriend and I have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be nothing better for him than to see me naked, kiss me in places that are usually covered with clothes, and have sex with me as part of love making. I have mentioned to him that I am not ready for sex. He is very good and puts no pressure on me. He says that he does not want me to do anything I don’t want to. He says that when the time is right and I’m ready it will come. He says he will be in no hurry and just wait patently. I would like to at least make some of his wishes come true. I would like to give him a chance to see me in the nude. I would also like to see him in the nude. What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse? Thanks for your time.
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reader, jabey  +, writes (20 February 2008):
there are alot of great activities which you both can participate in without actually having full intercourse. But usualyy theses lead to wanting the whole thing, but hey thats ok if it leads to that natural progression.
a man can see you naked and explore your body, with kisses and carresses. He also can use his fingers and penitrate you with them inside your vagina, which will feel nice for you both, Then he can stimulate you with his tongue around your clitoral area.
You can stimulate him by stroking his penis and then also use your mouth to give him oral satisfaction.
All these things can be done without penetration.
Relax and enjoy, sounds like he loves you and respects you, I think you will enjoy x
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (20 February 2008):
 well hun first of all you should know you have got yourself a keeper!! he seemss very kind and understanding, im happy for you!! as for your question, there are alot of things you can do that dont involve sex as such, oral sex is very enjoyable for both men and women, try starting off by exploring eachother with you hands and then work from there. it will give you a chance to get to know you bf's body, and learn wat you both enjoy. even having fun with things like whipped cream and food can be great without having to have sex!! if you want to email me id be happy to give you some more advice xxx
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