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writes:Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months now, we're both 16; so of course we're a little 'sexual'. I dont mind when he does stuff to me, but when it comes time for me to do stuff to him, im cluess. I dont know how to give a handjob, never have. Im not scared to.. at all. I actaully want to; Im just scared i'll suck at it.. I dont want him to think im badd :/ Plusss, im a virgin, he isn't. So he's more "experienced" than me, wayy. But, you some of you help me out, tip's please and thank you?(:
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reader, i'mlovin'it. +, writes (31 August 2009):
well a hand job is not as bad as a blow job. you'll just wanna make shure you have some sort of lubrication such as k-y or spit even. he'll supply it if you ask. i know it may be awekward cuz you both will be just sitting there but have him pleasure you somehow in the mean time. just ask him how fast he wants you to go and everything should workk out. =]
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reader, RobL  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 Sorry, gotta intervene here.RAINORFIRE said:"Oh and if you do suck make sure you swallow your boy will get a real kick out of that."My response, no. Don't listen to that. Swallow if you want to, or don't if you don't. Whether he'll get a kick out of it or not is not the most important thing. What *YOU* want to do is most important at this point. If you don't want to, don't.
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reader, sammi star +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Ask him what he likes, let him help you and show you the way. He's gonna love it anyway, just because you're touching him but it's understandable you're nervous. Just make sure you relax...I know that's easier said than done but it'll make the whole experience much more enjoyable for both of you. Good luck :) x
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (11 August 2009):
 First tip relax
its not that serious, your bf is not as experienced as you think or he wouldnt be settling for handjobs.
As far as what to do dont try and be an expert just ask your bf how he likes it he wont mind telling you, practice make perfect so you should have some practice sessions with your bf
Oh and if you do suck make sure you swallow your boy will get a real kick out of that.
hope that helps always use protection and be safe.
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