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writes: I have been with my partner for just over a month but have known him for 3years prior to this.When we first got together he was always saying he missed me and wanted me to be with him but now he hardly talks to me and we hardly ever see each other.I really like him and dont want to ruin our friendship either.I have spoken to him but he justs tells me everything is ok and i dont think it is.Thanks for the advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, bridget +, writes (10 April 2006):
 Hey there pet,
I think your partner just finds it a bit hard beng in a relationship and this is very normal.. and Noo its not your fault..
Everyone that I have known said that before they went as "Partners" they were friends before and because they are more than that, they sometimes find it hard to cope with a relationship with a friend..
Its a very common problem and happens all the time with friends being partners..
My advice to you would be to sit him down and explain to him, your feelings and your input to the relationship and see what he has to offer.. I know that you have mentioned that you did this, but if he sees that you are finding things a little complicated then he might understand you a bit better...This way you can judge which way to go next, if he is not willing to put that little bit effort into your relationship, then leave it and move on..
Nothing ventured nothing gained..
I wish you the best of luck
Jacqueline
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): move on. if he is acting weird, he is not really feeling the relationship. break up with him but u can remain friends if u want.
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