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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:ok, so i've been dating "mike" for about 4 months now. We can only see each other on weekends because of our work schedules and bc we live 40 mins away from each other. We only talk a couple times a week and thru text (he never calls) just to see how each others weeks are going or whatever. He usually always asks me out for the weekend, in which he'll drive here and take me out (he always pays) or sometimes ill drive to see him. When were together he's really sweet, and respects my choice not to have sex (altho we do have naked time hehe) however, outta the blue a couple weeks ago he called me to say he doesnt want a relationship right now and was afraid i was getting too emotionally attached. wtf. kinda angered me yet i really like the guy and am thinking maybe he'll come around...i dunno how much longer to give it tho. i mean, if he says he doesnt want a relationship now, he probly wont want one later? i dont want him to feel he can have his cake and eat it too...was thinking of telling him im seeing other guys (even tho im not) to maybe make him jealous and then maybe he'll committ...????help
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reader, accused +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Let me just say this "When a Man tells you, he's not ready for a relationship" BELIEVE HIM! So many times women get their feelings all caught up with the "sweet" and "naked times".... Only to be the first to ask someone "Why is this man treating me this way?" Well he told you from the start he wasn't ready.... You can't make anyone love or want to commit to you under no situation... It never works out... Even though you have feelings for this guy, then when you talk to him, explain that you don't want to wait around.... and you will continue to date or do whatever it is that you do, with out him... but you two can still talk and be friends..... Best of Luck Accused
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