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writes:I am dating the guy for seven months now.. and we didn't have any sex! he didn't tell me I love you.. he is 23 years old and I am 40.. I feel his love but he didn't want to admit it! should I continue?
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reader, Got Issues  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 I used to live with two gay men and met several of their friends and heard a lot of their stories. Sorry to generalise, but all the men I know, gay or straight, like sex, and the gay men that I've known definitely would not hang around for four dates before having sex, let alone seven months. I know it's not what you want to hear, but he is probably having sex with someone else, I'm sorry.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (10 January 2013):
 Many times, folks on here have heard me refer to the "four-date rule".... a sly ruse used to get a girl in bed.
THIS guy, who you are dating, seems to not understand the ruse... or has mis-read it, and believe it's the "four HUNDRED DAY" rule.... which, of course, is preposterous...
You need to sit this guy down and make it clear to him that you expect to "get a little" before too long. ... (and that)..."Too long" means: before you decide to dump him and get on to a guy who is prepared to play a little "mattress dominoes" with you....
Good luck.....
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (10 January 2013):
 Seven months into a relationship and no sexual activity is quite along time, espessially as he is only 23. He either has no interest in sex atal with no sex drive, or he is obtaining sex somewhere else. I find it hard to believe you have been with a 23 year old for seven months and he has not tried it on, or something hasen't lead to something of a sexual nature. As for whether you want to continue, well thats your call, but if you ask me something is a little a miss here.
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