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We're dating, but the thought of doing anything intimate with him, doesn't appeal to me. Does this mean I don't fancy him?

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Question - (19 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im with this guy who i do really like spending time with but im not sure if i fancy him. The thought of doing sexual and intimate things with him really doesnt appeal to me, does this mean i dont fancy him??

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (20 May 2007):

nologo agony auntIt says more about you than about your feelings.

Maybe it's just how you understand relationship.

Or maybe this is what you want at this stage of your life.

You say: "i do really like spending time with but im not sure"

Are you sure about other things in your life: for instance, what you want and who you are?

Two more possible explanations are underlying emotional problems or other commitments.

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A male reader, DV1 United States +, writes (20 May 2007):

DV1 agony auntIt seems to me that you're only looking for a friend. You should tell him so before you lead him on. Save the potential hurt you may cause him.

DV1

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