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writes:I am struggling to come to terms with the fact that my fiancee kissed another man. We were going through a very rough patch and she was crying regularly and in the midst of this kissed a colleague. I have not been totally perfect myself and have held hands with a girl and stroked another girls leg and ass. I did this when I was drunk but the relationship was going fine. Could anybody put this into some sort of context for me? Are my indiscretions minor compared to hers?
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (20 April 2007):
 Both of your indiscretions were not major or minor, neither were more or less wrong. How you handle it from here will make all the difference in the world. You need to sit down and discuss the fact that kissing someone else and touching someone else's ass is not something that a truly committed couple does. The good thing is you are engaged and not married. Agree that neither of you were in the right, apologise, kiss and make up and promise that those boundaries will never be crossed again, for the sake of your future marriage. If you can both do this, you stand as good a chance as the rest of us!!!
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