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*witlil1629
writes:I have been in a relationship since fresham year of high school. We've been on/off, but everytime we get back we both feel like our relatioship is better and stronger. We both learned (at least i know i did) from our mistakes. We're both going to diff colleges. I know maybe too young to say that i love him but i do. We both grew up together emotionally and understand each other. I do believe that we both balance each other out. Were going to college this august and i'm deep inside so scared. It affects my everyday living and im just so scared since we've been emotionally attached to each other. We're going to both diff colleges. it is an hour away from each other. Any advice on what we should do? Also its hard for me to trust him because of the reason why we broke up before. He just have lied to me so much and soemtimes I am sick of it. I am so scared that he'll give up becauase he tends to give up easily. any advice?should i see a palm reader before going away so I don't need to worry? Help. please.
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Do not go to a palm reader my darling, they just tell you want you want to hear. They have very crafty ways of making you believe in all sorts of stuff.
They mess with your brain.
You have to both trust each other, if the love is strong on both sides ~ then you don't have a problem.
Sit and have a heart to heart with him. Be up front with him and tell him how much you love him, and you need him to assure you that he'll always be honest and not lie to you as he has done in the past ... otherwise there's no point in keeping up this relationship, tell him that.
You must sort this out before you both go off to your colleges, or you'll have this messing with your brain too.
Get in there and be frank with him. Here's wishing you all the best, and hope it all works out.
BigSis
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (22 July 2008):
 Wait, your colleges are an hour away? I thought you were going to different states!
There are so many people who live 1, 2, 3 hours apart from each other but that doesn't stop them from seeing each other and still being together. I can attest to that (my boyfriend and I live 3 hours away from each other and we're still strong).
Now what you could do is set the times where you can visit each other. Yes, you will see him less since you live far apart but it's better than not seeing im at all. Most probably you will have the weekends off and at that time you could hang out with him.
Another option if you haven't done the housing in school is to live together. Although either one of you (or both) will take a longer trip to get to school, it will be worth it to be together.
I personally don't believe in palm readers, but if you do and you think this will appease your mind, then do so if you want. But just remember this: You are the one who makes your destiny and the one who can change your own future. The future is not written in stone and for that, no matter what someone tells you what it will be, it doesn't mean it will ave to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2008): talk to him about it
try as hard as u can to go to the same college with him
if its too late then u guys might visit eachother during the holidays or something.
u should really talk with him about it and discuss it with him, bcz its between u and him
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