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writes:Well..i was seeing this guy casually and he made it clear that it was no strings.. then we started talking on the phone and calling each other all the time. If we wernt on the phone then we would text each other.. Well i was sick of being just a sh'G SO I WENT on a date with this really hot guy and he is really nice to me and i like him a lot but i think im falling for the casual guy who i was seeing casully in the begginning.. Well my casual guy found out that i went on a date and he got really upset i think he likes me but im not sure.. i wana be with him but he says he doesnt trust me but we wernt even together.. how will i know if he really likes me???
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reader, Keria +, writes (26 April 2007):
'not sure what his problem is. If there's "no strings attached", then you should be able to see whoever you want whenever you want. Ask him what a string is.
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reader, lupa-k +, writes (26 April 2007):
First off, you haven't done anything wrong here, and its important that you don't go thinking you have let casual guy down. It seems to me that he wants it all ways, that he wants a situation that he can get out of as and when he pleases, but doesnt want you to have the same freedom. That might just have a few alarm bells ringing.
The most sensible course of action would be to pursue things with the date that you had, someone who respected you and with whom you had a lot of fun. But sensible isn't always the fun option to take, and only you can decide what you want.
The only way you will know if the casual guy really likes you is if he's prepared to commit to you and to go for something a little more serious. You've thrown the gauntlet down to him with this date you've gone on, so the ball is in his court now if he wants that
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