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writes:i was in a relashinship for about four years and was madly and deeply in love with him and still am.we broke up over something very silly, he is with someone else now. he still rings me and talks to me regualer he also visits now and again just as friends.but when he visits he always trys to touch me or kiss me.when we was together he said he loved me.but i want to know the meaning of him touching and trying to kiss me as at the moment iam mixed up.what does this mean?
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reader, aunty jane  +, writes (9 May 2007):
 if hes with someone else then let him go.... it sounds as if he doesnt want you to move on. if you let him kiss you it could lead to more and he will be having his cake and eating it. yes you can still be friends as in saying hello and being polite when you see him in the street. if his new girlfriend finds out about you two she will be angry at you not him and this will spoil your relationship with him further.. keep it friendly but at a distance , give his new relationship a chance to work and you find someone new or even have some time out to clear your own mind
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (9 May 2007):
 It is possible that your ex is finding hard to let go.
Could be nothing else but loneliness on his part.
You broke up for a reason. In order for both of you to move on, if you wish to remain friends, do not complicate things and make it clear to him you do not need any confusion.
He may try to touch and kiss because he knows he can and you will let him every time.
If you are not comfortable with this, stop it. It will avoid disappointment later on.
Good luck
Angel of Love
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