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writes:ok so long story. and yes i have problems.. feels like i cant do anything right lately.. i had a close friend who just got out of a 2 year relationship and then i just got out of my 2 month relationship.. and before that my 1 eyar relationship.. and we got talking and eventually we kinda liked each other.. but not things went a bit fast and he doesnt even wanna talk to me and the only time we've talked really is when hes drunk n im drunk.. cuz we both deal with stress in the worst possible way... i just wanna know like..what i should do.. i feel like shit when i wake up knowing i took out my stress on booze.. and i feel like shit even more that we were so close and helping each other though it and then feelings got in the way and that i cant be a good friend to him anymore cuz of it cuz he never really talks anymore... ugh sorry about this retarded post...
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (3 August 2009):
Hi there,
Do you know why he doesn't want to talk to you anymore?
I'm not sure if you're asking if you want to have a relationship with him or whether you want to maintain the friendship.
Either way, I think there needs to be some talking when both of you are sober so you can both work out how you fit into each others lives.
If he's not talking to you perhaps you could write, email or send a text saying you want to meet sober.
I think the best thing for you now is to leave alcohol alone until you sort out your stress and spend some time alone to grieve your past relationships. You say you feel like shit when you wake up and it sounds as if the alcohol has jepardized a friend who could have been a support for you.
Be careful about rebounds as it can be a bit messy and could sabotage a potential relationship for the future.
Good luck.
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