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writes:Hi All, Your opinions pls!! I have been in regular contact with my ex until recently. He said he wanted us to start seeing each other again (he works funny hours) and said we could see each other during the days when I get some time off. I was like ok. Anyway, I left it for a bit then called him when he was away at his parents house. He seemed pleased to hear from me, and said he would help me with a new food regime (he is a fitness freak). Anyway, He was on messenger when he came back. I signed in, and then signed out as I had my reservations about the whole thing again by this time, so did not message him, then a couple of weeks later he was on it and signed out when he saw me. I then met someone else and went out with him for around 7 weeks (it did not work out). During this time I did not call my ex at all which was the first time we had gone that long without contact ever. Anyway, I decided to text him a couple of weeks back to see how he is, as I still care for him, and he did not answer. I have sent him numerous messages, and he is not responding at all, so I sent him a nice one saying, ok he does not want to speak to me, but I wish him happiness in the future. He still did not respond, and I feel he is angry with me for going off like that for a long time. It is very unusual for him not to respond, and I am quite upset. He does not know I was seeing someone, but does he suspect and that is why he is ignoring me? or was it because I just disappeared? I don't like the thought of us not having contact ever again, as we were quite close friends, and things were good between us last time we saw each other. Your thoughts please? Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2011): Hi there. Did your ex ever make the effort to see you? It sure seems like he had excuses not to or maybe you were the one making excuses for him. I think he is ignoring you because he would have done it anyway, because he didn't really want to get back together or even try. Maybe he got his ego dented recently or was bored and that's why he said that but never showed up on the follow through.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx Caring Guy. There was no way he could have found out though- as we do not move in the same circles at all. I guess he may have suspected. It bothers me he did not respond, but yes, time to move on I guess...xx ( although it gripd me a bit... I still have feelings for him) xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 April 2011):
You disappeared for 7 weeks and didn't contact him. That would be enough for me to end contact too, especially if you were seeing another man (he may have found that out.)
What you two had is over, and the time has come for you two to move on. Neither of you really went out of your way to make this work. He seemed a little distant, then you disappeared for 7 weeks, and that was the nail in the coffin. Time to move on.
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