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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am married for 6 months now. Ours was an arranged amrriage. we love each other. my husband is very loving and caring. both of us working but whenever we get time with each other during the day, he teases and touches me. but when we get to bed, i dont know what happens to him...he sleeps off so early. 99% of the times, it is me who initiates and he just lies down without doing anything at all...no touching, no kissing. and in the meantime, he falls asleep many times. sometimes, he suddenly changes the subject mentioning something about which is very absurd that puts me off.we used to make love almost daily earlier, but now it happens once a week.. i dont know what to do??
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (7 September 2011):
 It sounds like the two of you have fallen into a pattern and maybe it has become a little boring for the both of you?
Talk to your sweet husband and let him know that you want to have a marriage that brings the two of you closer and grows deeper in love. You want both of you to find your sexual life is good for the both of you.
Talking is going to be the key to open up new opportunity and ideas...after all the brain is the first sexual organ!
Maybe he wants you to be more responsive and you want more touching and kissing. Tell him how much you miss his touching, hugging and kissing..maybe he does not know you actualy like and miss this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): I take it your were both virgins when you married? He sounds like he doesn't know what is expected to please a woman. Only you can fix this by telling him. Explain that you want your relationship to be deep and fulfilling and that you would like to work towards a satisfying love life. Get him onboard and then buy some books and read them together. If he loves you he should want you to experience all the great joys of a good sexual relationship, and vice versa. Communication is the key.
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