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Is my partner's brother just trying to be macho in front of me? Or is he trying to tell me something?

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Question - (7 September 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *hatCrash writes:

I have been in a relationship with my same-sex partner for almost two years. My partner has a brother who is "straight" he has a girlfriend, and always has that macho man attitude.

He treats his family, including his brother really rude, on the other hand he treats me with a lot more respect, he can be a douche at times to me, but eventually he appologizes for the way he was acting.

My concern; I do have a brother who all his life had nothing but girlfriends, and he has three daughters, my nieces. He has told me he likes men, but wouldn't really date one, he doesn't care what people think, he just doesn't like the idea of being with a guy as a relationship unless the guy was flamboyant.

Now this has opened my eyes that a lot of men could be possibly attracted to men.

Now this leads up to my partner's brother, EVERYTIME his brother talks to me, he talks so "smooth" like he tries too hard, and he is always grabbing his freaking crotch! He also had a tendency to lift his shirt at times, what does it mean when a man grabs his crotch consistantly when talking to another male? Is this him trying to be macho? or is this him trying to tell me something else?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (7 September 2011):

Honeypie agony auntYes he is a homophobic douche. I think he wants YOU to be 100% sure that he is straight.

YOU CAN'T HAVE THIS! that is his attitude.. Sorry he sounds like a lamo.

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A male reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA United States +, writes (7 September 2011):

Dont get exited, thats just how some dudes act. Hes playing with you, dont fall for it.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (7 September 2011):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

Your partner's brother sounds like a total douche. I'd steer clear of him if at all possible. Just tell him yer not interested in any THING he's offering. You've already got what you want.

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A male reader, furqan Pakistan +, writes (7 September 2011):

yes your partner's brother is just trying to be macho in front of you.

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