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female
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36-40,
*beautifullm1nd
writes:Ok... I met this guy on the 14th he asked for my number he was soo good looking he seemed perfect 4 me! So he called and asked me if I wanted to go out with him so we could talk and get to know each other. I said yes so he picked me up we started talking so we were just talking about our jobs what he does what I do...blah blah blah! So then he's all "yea... I have to make money to pay bills and take care of my baby" I was in shock but at least he's honest... Right..?. First thing that popped into my mind was baby momma drama!!! He asked if it was a problem bcause he has a kid I said no bcause its really not! I asked about his babys mom he just said they weren't together wen I asked why, he said because she wanted to have him tied down you know no hanging with the guys stuff like that. So I had no choice but to believe him, I wasn't gonna investigate and be nosy! What if he's telling the truth! That's my first problem to this story now...after a while of talking and having a nice time driving around he asked what I wantd to do I said I don't know whatever you want to do. So he parked the car which was totally fine with me..and we started conversating a little more.. Then he leaned over to kiss me and since he is soo hot and romantic I couldn't resist him!!! We made out for a while then he asked if I wanted to go to the back seat, I agreed we ended up touching and kissing you know getting freaky...lol but we didn't have sex! Now here's my question to you... Should I trust he's a single drama free dad! And do you guys think I was moving too fast for a first date? I don't want him to think I'm easy, or slutty, but I couldn't help myself am I too late? What can I do to correct my mistakes I really like him and I really need advice pleease help me! He asked to see me this Friday which makes me happy but nervous what should I do?
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reader, Confused88  +, writes (18 March 2007):
I think that you should trust him for now,
However I think that you probably ahve gone a little but too fast with him in my opinion,
But each to their own,
Maybe next time you should make sure you dont have sex with him, set boundarys for yourself and stick to it.
This will let him know your not an easy ****,
Hopefully this will help
Oh and if you notice he lies about anything else you shouldnt trut him
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