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male
age
30-35,
*atumokeef
writes:About 2 months ago I started school at college. In one of my classes, I saw this girl for the first time and I knew that I was going to talk to her. After class I went and had lunch with her and immediately we got along. About a week later, she slept over at my place and we had hooked up. After that we hung a lot more and we would kiss each other when other people werent around. We would also talk about being together and how much we liked eachother. The problem is, she has a boyfriend. Before me, she told me that there hasnt been anyone that questioned her relationship with him. She says she has never cheated on anyone before. She also told me that if it wasnt for him, we would be dating.Recently, after a few more sleepovers, her boyfriend caught her in a lie about hanging out with me. He doesnt know that we had hooked up or slept in the same bed, he just assumes that we are really close friends. Since then she says she doesnt want to lie to him anymore or do anything that he wouldnt approve of. She obviously likes me and I like her back the same but this other guy is in the way. What should I do in this situation? Should I leave them alone? Continue flirting with her and pretending that hes not there? or should I just forget her all together and come back when they break up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2009): make a choice that's what you should do. if you like her enough tell her you can't be with her while she's with him. or if you don't do without because if he found out and you dont have feelings for her then things will get hectic and you don't need that.
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