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writes: I ve been married for 5 1/2 years. My wife cheated on me 5 months after we were married and we worked it out. I m madly in love with my wife but started cheating because I was insecure. I went to Iraq for 2 out of the past 3 years to find out she has had an affair with the same man for these 3 years. I never slept with the same woman more than once. I m still in love and she says she is too! What should I do? DESPERATE
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (21 August 2006):
 im sorry to say but i dont think this is love if it was cheating would of never crossed your mind as well as actually doing it. ive been very insecure too but i have never cheated. and if she has cheated with the same man what that saying? that she may be falling in love with this other man. if you want to work your marriage out then its simple STAY FAITHFUL! its not hard to do if it is real love and not pretend.
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reader, jn +, writes (20 August 2006):
 You are both wrong and need to open a strong line of communication. Develop fair rules for fighting and stick to them. Keep the argument focused on a subject, not a person. Only debate things you know about. When someone does start to yell, go silent. Do not respond until the yelling stops. Learn to speak the same language. Number one you both need to go see your Chaplin or a counselor. You said you where in Iraq? Does this mean you are in the Military? If so you will loose you rank if you get reported.
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