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female
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26-29,
*lueless and confused
writes:I'm sixteen and i have been talking to a guy for the past three months. The thing is i dnt know if hes interested or just being nice.He's a great personality and matching looks. He's headboy, a great student and he plays tons of sports: in other words tons of girls like him.We started talking on fb and we flirted a lot even though we were rarely together in school. Whenever he sees me he always says and smiles and during breaks we sometimes talk and he teases me a bit and flirts. He's started pillow fights in the past and just made flirty comments, but rather than that we never spend time together in school.He's told me he really likes talking to me and that he thinks i'm really nice and stuff and we were once talking about girls in my year and he told me a few he considered pretty and said he wasn't interested in any of them and then he said told me he thought i was very petty and that he loved my smile and that he loved to see me in school cause i always looked cheerful and stuff ( does this mean i'm not in the category of the girls he's not interested in). Also we tease each other a bit, like he's told me that he spends ll day waiting for me to text him.My problem is hat i always have to be the one starting the conversation and 2 weeks ago i texted him on fb and he saw the text but never reply. I havent seen him since cause hes at home sick. I dnt want to text him cause i feel that i might annoy him in a way for alwasy being the one who texts and that maybe he dsnt wanna talk to me but then he always says he loves talking to me and that he cares about me.We havent talked in a while now and i dnt know if i shud because maybe hes just being really nice and not interested at all. Sorry about my english its not my first language and please help me. i dnt wanna be texting a guy who dsnt want me to otherwise i'll just look like a fool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): I'm a guy and that is more or less how I act when I like a girl. However, you should pay attention to how he treats other girls. If he gives you a different treatment than most girls who he interacts with then he most likely does like you. Maybe the reason why he stopped talking to you is because he feels that he is stuck and not getting any results with you, so maybe you should do something to make him feel otherwise. That doesn't mean that you should tell him or anything radical, just give him clues that he is going in the right direction.
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reader, Hangin  +, writes (19 December 2012):
I think he likes you, but you have to know first if he is a player. I mean, lots of girls like him, that means he's hot. But base on his text messages, he seemed interested with you because he flirts with you, i think that's a good news. :) If you want to make sure if he's just playing around, plan some dates where he is available for you to bond like watching movies or doing some school activities together. Good luck :)
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