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We have been having sex for 3 months but she is still tight. How can we loosen her up?

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Question - (29 October 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *oE616 writes:

Hi

me and my girlfreind have been going out for 5 months now and we started having sex three months ago and for sum reason she is as tight as the first time we did it any advice on how to 'loosen her up'

cheers

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A male reader, KoE616 United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2007):

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KoE616 agony auntheya all

cheers for all the answers and advice recived in responce to my question really helped me out a great deal thanks again

cheers

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007):

OK, no one has asked this question yet, but how big are you? Is she unusually tight or are you unusually big? If you don't know, here is an article with statistical data on penis length and girth. This is believed to be the most accurate study done.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shrinkage_(slang)#Erect_length

If you are not unusually large, then I would not let this information about your girlfriend get out to the rest of the guys in town. She may have trouble fighting them all off.

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A male reader, Karlos Omnis United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2007):

Karlos Omnis agony auntIf she's still getting wet, then it really isn't a problem, and trust me it's a good thing for the both of you, if it's a tit fight it feels a lot better.

However, if you're referring to her not being aroused anymore than perhaps its becoming a bit too routine. Try going back to basics, actually undressing each other for instance, rather than falling into the norm of lying in bed then getting down to business.

Losing the romance is usually the key problem with sexual relationships, because everything becomes expected and assumed.

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A female reader, Emmajane United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2007):

Emmajane agony auntI've never heard that question! Most guys want to know how to get their girl to be tighter!

Seriously, use some lube. That's all it usually takes. Then enjoy her tightness. You'll never find anything as good again!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

slow down, don't rush or maybe she still not ready no matter what she says. she might be trying to please you. Be gentle until she relaxes a bit more.

Hope I've helped you.

X

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

Make the most of it mate, it sure doesnt stay that way and as Uncle Phil says, childbirth! I have had three kids and even with the pelvic floor exercie i would love to be back to how i was before kids, but that is never going to happen. Be grateful!

take care

xx

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (29 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthello.

There maybe a lot of people reading this page and thinking god what a lucky bloke why is he complaining, and they would be right.

if your problem is that you are getting discomfort while in the act of sex then that is a totally a different question, if your partner is not relaxed enough then this may cause the muscle in her vagina to contract, if this is the case then you both need to relax more and not be in such a rush to enter her vagina, be careful,take it easy,and do not rush.

If it is because one of you is not making enough fluid to help you lubricate each other, then i would go to the chemist and ask there advise on the type of lubricant that they stock, he will be able to advise you more that i can.

hope this help.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

I can't for the life of me figure out why on earth you would want to! Be thankful.

However, one surefire way would be for her to give birth.

Phil

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