Should I tell my ex the baby is really his?
Q. Last year i was meant to have an abortion after me and my boyfriend split up, but i never. I never told my ex i was pregnant either. I gave birth to a healthy baby boy called Levi on 24th January. I have seen my ex 1 or 2 times since we split u...
A. 17 February 2008: defiantly tell him he has a right to know and people are right if he walks he walks you still have your boyfriend... (read in full...)
He's aggressive, but I love him. What should I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, This boy likes me and I like him But we keep on going back togeather and breaking up. We are crazy about one-another but he is to agressive and I love him and he loves me what do I do. ...
A. 16 January 2008: how is he aggresive?... (read in full...)
A move means we will break up. What should I do?
Q. My family are planning on moving house but I don't want to. Mainly because I am with a girl I know I could spend the rest of my life with, but we've both agreed that we mean so much to each other, a long-distance relationship wouldn't work. What...
A. 16 January 2008: well if you are an adult than you dont have to go with them
but if you have to if you can drive drive to see her all the time well how far apart is it?... (read in full...)
My sister's bf's daughter (same age as me)...and I'm in love with her. Is this wrong?
Q. Hi I need some advice My half-sister is about 19 years older than me and has got a new boyfreind. He has a daughter around the same age as me. My sister thought it be good if we swapped msn addresses. So we got talking and we met up before christ...
A. 16 January 2008: she is not family and so yes you should go for it... (read in full...)
If she is unhappy with her current boyfriend as said, why are they still together whereas she flirts with me?
Q. well I met this chic through my cousin. I knew she had a boyfriend, and wasn't trying to holla. we started texting just friendly at first. after about a month we started texting all day and night. the conversation changed over into flirting and ...
A. 16 January 2008: because some girls when they have been with a guy for a long time they have a comfort zone with that person and it takes a while to get out of that comfort zone because there afraid if they do it might be a mistake (not implying that leaving him is ... (read in full...)
I can’t seem to get the courage to tell her how I feel, as I got hurt in the past for doing this.
Q. Hey I have known this girl for quite a while. I’ve started to have feelings for her, but I don’t know how to tell her. I can’t seem to get the courage because last time I let someone know I liked them I got hurt. I’ve tried writing notes but I ju...
A. 16 January 2008: maybe try and have a friend talk to her for you if you cant... (read in full...)
Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??
Q. My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry. Do...
A. 14 January 2008: well i think you should give her some space to see whats shes missing... (read in full...)
My gf's acting means she has to run around in her underwear, should I tell her it bugs me??
Q. This may be immature, but so be it. My girlfriend was casted as a whore in a play she is performing in. She asked me beforehand how I would feel about her running around stage in merely her underwear. I told her right off the bat, I really don't ap...
A. 14 January 2008: well it is just acting i mean if you think about it there are tons of married actors and actresses that have to do it everyday all the time but there loved ones have to know that it means nothhing so you have to trust he but do tell her that it does ... (read in full...)
Where best to propose? Paris or restaurant on Valentine's day?
Q. I can't decide which of the two events I should use to propose to my girl friend. I originally planned to propose to her on valentine's day in the same Italian restaurant we had our first date. I have the ring and I have made arrangement at the ...
A. 14 January 2008: defiantly paris thats everygirls dream!... (read in full...)
Should we meet on neutral ground or should I just walk away??
Q. My boyfriend of a year broke up with me a week ago. I feel 50/50 about it. Relief because we had been living together and it wasn't working, I feel happier back at home with my family. Sad because he was lovely to me, and I miss him, and it's har...
A. 14 January 2008: you should just meet face to face thats always easiser because ive learned that fights can heat up alot faster when your talkin on the phone or internet and it will be easier to meet face to face because if yall do decide to spilt you can have a lot ... (read in full...)
My bf keeps asking for sex but I don't know what to do.
Q. dear cupid, My bf keeps asking me for sex, should i say yes or no? I am 13 and don't know what to do.... helppppp...
A. 14 January 2008: ducky is rite your 13 and at 13 i thought i was ready too we all do..but if you still have seconds thoughts dont and telll him you want to wait and if he doesnt want to then you know it wasnt meant to be... (read in full...)
We are trying to enjoy our final months together but I am not always sure how he feels.
Q. I've been in a relationship for almost 2 years now with a man who is a fair bit older than me. He's my best friend, my first boyfriend and I am very much in love with him and am always trying to show how much he means to me. But, being a fairly u...
A. 14 January 2008: if he really cares and you know he does sit down and talk to him about it and i know its sounds all cliche' but really it does work and yall can make it work if your really want it too... (read in full...)
I really don't want to be alone living so far away from home but we argue everyday.
Q. Hi Everyone, I really need some help. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, he has cheated twice but i forgave him. We moved hundreds of miles away from all our friends and family to start a fresh. But when we got here i was real depresse...
A. 14 January 2008: my ex boyfriend tried to pull that all the time when i tried to leave he would say he was going to kill himself but when we were toghtehr we argued and he cheated and then came back i think you should head back towards your friends and family they ... (read in full...)
Does the fact that my cd made her cry mean my ex isn't over me??
Q. My ex broke up with me about a month and a half ago. She's been with someone else for about 3 weeks and last night I gave her a compilation cd i made. I asked her if she'd listened and she txt back and said some of the songs made her cry. Do...
A. 13 January 2008: yes you should ask her why she cried but yeah i think it's because she's not over you... (read in full...)
I will tell him as soon as I am certain of my pregnancy, but I do not know how, or if he will help me.
Q. I'm 17, and took a pregnancy test today and it said positive. What are the chances it's a false positive? I only took the test because the end of my last period was 40 days ago. Also my boobs are really sore and feel like they've grown, I've had ...
A. 13 January 2008: if you got a positive your are most likely pregnant and i hope that everything works out and if your boyfriend really does care he will be there for you and the baby keep me posted i want to know how things go for you!... (read in full...)
I told my wife if the baby isn't mine I'm leaving her!
Q. ok me and my wife have been together for about 3yrs and a couple of months ago she cheated on me with an ex-boyfriend, i forgave her because i love her and i let her know that i'm hurt. but now she is pregnant! i told her i would stay with her and ...
A. 13 January 2008: i think that if you really love her you will stay with her when you said vows on your wedding day your promised that you would be there for her till the day that you die and if you love her as much as you say you do you would still be there for her ... (read in full...)
How can I make our long distance relationship strong??
Q. hey, Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month so fair and we are very much in love we usally always text and talk on msn but every so often i don't hear from him is this normal? I feel massively insecure and i have never been in a proper...
A. 13 January 2008: i have the same thing to me rite now my boyfriend lives far away now but i know i love him and i know he loves me and i miss him so much everyday but in the back of my head i think he could be doing stuff with other girls but then i think well he is ... (read in full...)
How can I make him understand I am not single anymore and am totally committed to him??
Q. Ok, I'm 19, my BF is 22 and he doesn't trust me at all! In my past, I've kissed 4 other guys and gave oral sex to one of them, who happens to be the ex mutual friend who introduced my BF and me. The other 3 guys were guys I had just met at parties,...
A. 13 January 2008: tell him to put it in your point of view i was just in the same spot you were in not to long ago you need to tell him that if he did something like that he would want you to forgive and forget and he would want a second chance.... (read in full...)
I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??
Q. Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...
A. 13 January 2008: i learned my lesson the hard way with my first love we did everything together and i was in love when he left i was devastated and then i fought to get our relationship back but i started to realize that god gave them to put an impact on your life ... (read in full...)
Is it possible for me to accept him (and his limits) but not get hurt in the end if he does not truly want a relationship?
Q. I like this guy and he likes me (I am not sure if he likes me for me, or just for sex). I want a relationship with him, but he doesn't want a relationship right now. Is it possible for me to do stuff with him but not get hurt in the end if he ...
A. 12 January 2008: no you need to be strait forward with him and tell him how you feel and that you dont want to get hurt so he needs to decide if he wants to be with you or not.... (read in full...)
His ex is pregnant and he doesn't love her...should I still date him?
Q. So I use to go out with this guy for 2 months. Then we broke up and later on he got with this girl but then they broke up. During the time that he was with that girl, he would still try to contact me and try to keep it cool with me. So once him and ...
A. 11 January 2008: if you really love him then yes you should not let that stop you atleast he is being a man about it ... (read in full...)
I am 15 and pregnant I need advice how to tell my mom
Q. i am 15 years old and 15 weeks pregnant i dont know how to tell my mom and i told a lady that has been helping me through all this i would tell her within my winter break which will end on the 7th i am scared my mom will hate my boyfiend and there ...
A. 11 January 2008: just sit her down and tell her that you need to tell her something important and that its something that you hope she will be there for you and explain to her that she cant hate your boyfriend because he did this to you because it was your fault ... (read in full...)
I have realised I love my ex but he is a friend of my boyfriend's so he would not cause him discomfort. Any future for us in these circumstances?
Q. am going out with somebody currently he is good friends with my ex i just recently realised i think i love my ex and i dont think i like my boyfriend in tht way :S i was the one to break up with him. people say he still likes me still but ...
A. 11 January 2008: yes there is if he has feelings for you and you have feelings for him then you should go for it but hang out with him alot more to make sure you really do have feelings then talk to him about it and your boyfriend might not understand at first but ... (read in full...)
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