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anonymous
writes:My fiance and my best friend have been very lustful for each other ever since the time we had a threesome which I did not enjoy.... recently I found out that he kissed her behind my back and very often they try to touch each other inappropriately. It has gotten way out of proportion and I want to know what I can do to stop it.... I'm tired of the betrayal and the deceit.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Sounds like your b/f has been wanting to be with your best friend all along and he simply talked you into trying the threesome so it would be "legit". I would confront him and tell him how you feel. But I seriously doubt it will change the behavior. It might be time to find another boyfriend - and - best friend too, and the next time the guy you're in love with suggests a threesome, just say no. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2007): He obviously doesn't love or respect you, and either does your "best friend" They want eachother more than they want you in thier live's. You can't do anything about it now, you messed up by letting the 3 some happen. Let them do their thing and move on. Next time, don't share your man. Or better yet, get a man who doesn't feel as though he needs to be shared to be happpy. Find a man who only needs & wants you.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 You three opened Pandora's Box. The genie can't be put back in the bottle. There are a million clichés here. This is the trouble with threesomes, the person who likes them, really likes them. Once they get a taste of it, it's hard to take it away. If this is how they choose to carry on, let them have each other. Learn from this.
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