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writes:Ok, this may sound weird, I've never had sex before, but I am planning on with my boyfriend in a few months. Anyway yesterday me and my boyfriend tried putting his member in down there just to see if it would work/fit, he took it out after 5 seconds because it was uncomfortable, so I'm just wondering whether I could be pregnant? I'm just a little bit worried, because i didn't think about protection at the time, which i know is stupid but..please help me! :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012): It's technically possible but extremely unlikely
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): Look into additional methods of comtraception so the pill, injection, patches etc... Because you don't want to take any risks!!!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 January 2012):
 You can find out by asking him actually. Pre-cum can only contain sperm if there is sperm in the urethra already, i.e. he has recently ejaculated. So if it had been more than a few hours since he last ejaculated (time to dry) and he'd urinated since (urine kills sperm instantly), there can't be any sperm in the pre-cum. Precum is not produced anywhere there could be sperm in it, the only purpose of it existing is to prime the urethra for when the sperm does come through, since normally the environment is toxic. If he had ejaculated recently, the odds are still exceptionally low since there would only be a "few" (relatively) sperm left anyways AND he would have had to precum while in there.
Also Cerberus is right, if he put his penis inside you, you're not a virgin, you've had sex. He doesn't have to finish for you to have had sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): Who's idea was it to see if it would fit or work of course it would its nature there is a very small chance you could be pregnant if his penis haf pre cum on it obviously he was horny so there is a very small chance
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): There's a very small chance but yes it's possible. You do know that was sex right? You're no longer a virgin and that technically was your first time.
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (19 January 2012):
 There is only a very small chance but remember that his member was aroused so there is always the chance of pre-cum etc. Also, make sure he wears a condom when you do things fully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): so already your both being irresponsible!!
Firstly why on earth would you try it to see if it fits? I have never heard such an excuse in my life, who's idea was that?
Secondly even if you had it in there for 1 second you never used a condom!!!!! so unless you want your first experience to be in the clinic or pregnant I suggest you are both prepared next time. I would definatley get the morning after pill, I wouldn't risk just hoping you wont be pregnant. If there is a next time with this guy I strongly advise you to have some condoms at hand. Sorry if I come across as harsh but it's things like this that end up with unwanted children, or abortions! neither are nice.
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reader, Siera  +, writes (19 January 2012):
Dear girl...there is only a small chance you could be pregnant,but that is still too much of a chance for you to take. Anytime you allow your boyfriend to enter you without protection is a risk.{even for only a few seconds} Some of his seminal fluid can escape into the vagina,even though there was no climax,and the tiniest amount can travel up the vaginal canal.Do please be extra vigilant in the future and don`t risk your future this way.Good luck
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 January 2012):
There's a very, very small chance that you might be if he had any pre-cum and any was left in there (and since he was turned on, there is that possibility). It might be worth you getting the morning-after pill just in case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2012): There is a 1% chance out of 1000 that u r pregnant if he didn't have an orgasum in u, your fine. don't stress it but when u have sex with him for reall where a condom
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