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writes: my boyfriend brokeup with me and he wants to get back with me and i love him, but lately he has been abusive and i dont know what to do. he says he nothing without me and wants to kill himself because i wont take him back. what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, stina  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 he is manipulating you - do not fall for his tricks. he will not kill himself. if you truly think he would do this, then you need to call the police and notify them of his behavior.ou don't need someone in your life like this - he's selfish and power hungry. i can guess that he cuts you down every chance he has, am i right?if i were you, i would keep my distance and ignore him. he is dangerous. if he goes any further and threatens you for not coming back to him, I would contact the local authorities and perhaps look into getting a restraining order.men who abuse women should not be taken lightly, period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): You already declared he is abusive so why would you go back?
He chose you for a reason and now you are caught up in his pain and anger...just stay away.
If he threatens to kill himself again the only thing you can do is call the authorities and tell them he is suicidal.
Stay away from him Sweetie. Move on. Heal. Get some counseling to help deal with the abuse issues.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (28 August 2006):
 But this is emotional blackmail, if you go back with him then you risk getting hurt physically, if you dont he is threatening to take his life and then you will feel guilty if he does no something so harsh as that. Encourage him to see a counsellor but his abusiveness and for his suicidal thoughts because they are not healthy and I am at this moment more inclined to tell you dont take him back and look after yourself, but I dont like to tell people do either A or B, the choice has to come from your heart. xXx
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