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writes:okay i broke up with my boyfriend a bout a week ago and we were fine and going to keep tlking to each other but his sister kept txting me saying he didnt want me so get over it and that he wanted nothing to do with me and to stop stalking him and called me a bitch! so i called her a fat cow and she made up that i called his mum one too! and now he hates me!! i dnt want him to hate me i still want him to be my friend :( everytime i try to get him to believe me he just wont listen i cant win against his sister, he believes anything she says!! how can i get him to be my friend again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits fine now thx he found out his sister was lying and apologised to me, explained the whole thing and now we're back together and things are better than they ever were xx
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reader, raiders  +, writes (25 June 2010):
 Don't worry about it and move on. When people break up the chances for them to continue being friends are slim, to many feelings, emotions involve. Just keep your distance from him and his sister.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (25 June 2010):
 In a letter:
"I'm sorry that there has been this misunderstanding. I did not insult your mother, i insulted your sister by calling her a 'fat cow,' because I was reacting out of anger. I am sorry for insulting your sister and I hope that one day you'll be my friend again. Until then, I will back off and leave you alone."
By the way... "fat cow???" Is that the best you could do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): Hello . You know when he believes everything that his sisters I'm sorry but he's like her follower though. You don't have to care about what she says ; she told you to get over it ignore her you can always pretend that you are totally over him . Make him regret about what he's thinking show him that you don't give a damn about his sister bullshit .good luck xxthere's a quote in french that says : suis le il te fuit,suit le I'll te fuit and that means follow him he runs,run he follows you.and trust me it does work out:)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 June 2010):
I would just step back. His sister has probably seen how hurt he is because your broke up with him, so has become protective of him. And unfortunately you called her a fat cow, which made her resolve even stronger. You wont' win. You now need to accept your his ex, and step out of his life gracefully or lose your self respect and dignity. Don't fight a battle you can't win.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): Why'd you break up? Was it even serious? Its nice that you stay'd friends but obviously he told his sister what happened and your ex maybe was upset about it. That was mean of her to make up stuff you didn't say. She shouldn't be talking for him either. You can't really change how someone feels. You can't control who they want to believe or don't want to. That's not your fault you can try but what good does it do if they don't want to anyway. It sounds like they are being stuckup and have too much pride. Who cares if you even call his mom a cow what is this like second grade? You want to be his friend but he doesnt for some reason probablly because of his bitchy sister. You should juust talk to him not his sister, and in person if you want to be friends. But this has a lot to do with the break up, and you broke up with him. For the reason I do not know.
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