In love, but she's stuck with a controlling boyfriend!

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Here goes. I'm in love with this girl for 2 years who is in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. Her relationship is not healthy. She broke up with him many times but patched because he forced her to be with him. They quarrel frequently. While with him, she used to say she has feelings for me. She gave me high hopes but in the end I got hurt, she asked me to move on and this happened many times. Now she is saying she don't give a damn about her relationship and doesn't want to keep close contact with guys for now. Her bf is very very possessive. She just can't escape from him even if she wants to break up, he wouldn't allow. I think she has lost trust on guys. I still love her and I want her in life. She tells me she is stuck in a possessive relationship and does not want to focus on relationship for now. She knows I love her. Do I have a chance to be with her in future? What should I do?

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