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writes: My girlfriend and I recently broke up. I really don't know why. i think it's cuz she is afraid of getting hurt, but i love her(havent told her that yet though) and i wont ever hurt her. but i dont think she believes me. right now i'm giving her a lot of space to give time for us both to think, eventhough its killing me to be away from her and not hear her voice everyday. i know that she still wants to be with me, but i dont get it. i've made it this far but i dont know where to go from here, like when to start calling her and asking her out again.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 I think you need to sit down and talk to her. She may well be afraid. Perhaps she has fallen in love with you and is scared that you dont feel the same way. So to avoid getting in deeper she bolted. Let her know how you feel, at least you will have a better understanding of what is happen. Tell her that you want to love her and be with her. That might be all it takes to get you guys back on track. Shes probably a little scared at what your relationship is becoming. And well you havent told her you love her, so maybe its time you did.
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 These situations are very difficult, everything u do or say can contribute into the outcome. I feel that if u truely feel you love her u have to let her kno. No im not saying pester her or sound like a desperate person. Let her know that you are here for her and that you will be there for her no matter what. Let her know that u will not give up on her because you love her...
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