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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago. We went out for 6 months. She said she wanted to still be mates and i agreed. Then after a while we stopped speaking to each other, dunno why, just got on with our lives for abit. I txt her when she wanted to meet up, as weve both left a couple of things round each others houses, so we could exchange, and she seemed like she didnt care. I txt back saying: i get the feeling she didnt want to talk to me, and she never replied. Then about a month later I saw her on msn, so i asked her why she was avoiding me and she said she needed to sort out some 'issues' before we could be friends. So maybe i thought, oh she might not be over me or something, but then about 2 weeks afer that, she has a new boyfriend. She sent me a message off facebook about a week ago, saying when I want to meet her again, but she didnt even say hi, how are you...so shes still the same. Basically, i dont know how to react, should i be the same back and be arsy or what?
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reader, andyb  +, writes (3 July 2008):
This girl is messing with your head or dangling the carrot as i call it.Sounds like she wants to keep you in the background incase she needs/wants you in the future when it suits her. You deserve better than this. Try not to contact her again, give yourself some space and you will see things more clearly - it's hard when we have our love 'goggles' on. Good Luck !
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