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writes:My husband and I are separated for the last 2months. We had a lot of issues going into this, but the main issue now is he thinks I cheated on him. I want to try and work things out with him, and in the beginning he said he did too, but I am not so sure where that stands right now. We aren't on the best of terms right now always arguing and at each other's throats, but his birthday is coming up in April and I want him to know I am thinking about him and I miss him. I was thinking of sending him a birthday card. My question is.... should I? And if so what do I write in it? I want him to know I miss him, and I am thinking of him, and that despite what is going on with us I still love him. But I also dont want to make him angry... Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (22 March 2012):
Just send him the card. If you can't even send the guy a birthday card, then forget about having reconciliation talks.
BTW, find out what HE did.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 March 2012):
 Why would he be angry if you acknowledged that he was celebrating a birthday? If he does get angry, um, isn't that a fairly clear indicator that he's got some issues? Wouldn't it also be possible that he would grow angry because you ignored his birthday?
"Dear hubby, I know we are apart right now but I wanted to wish you a happy birthday. I am thinking of you and I do miss you. I hope you have a great day. Love, your wife"
If you know you didn't cheat on him and he's being irrational about this, AND he becomes angry easily, I think he has some issues he needs to fix in himself. I don't think you can do this by yourself.
Good luck.
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