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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:After spending a few years in a bad relationship I spent a few months with friends having fun and enjoying the single life. But over the past year I have felt ready to meet a new guy. Since then I have had the worst luck! I have met a few guys but it never lasted more than a few dates. Now I am seeing a guy and we have the best time together. I love being with him and all our friends agree that we are a great couple. But he has just been offered a fantastic job in another country. He is really excited but I'm devastated!!! I'm being very supportive to him but inside I'm crying. This is a great move for him but I know he wants to do it alone so he can put 100% into it. I just don't know how I can pick myself up and move on AGAIN!! I feel like each time I let myself get excited about someone it ends. I'm not a kid and it's not easy to meet guys anymore, especially when all my friends are settled and getting married.Any advice?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 August 2007):
 Patience my dear, you are still young. He'll come along. Your right man might be getting a divorce from his shrew of a wife right now. Relax and enjoy the single life while you wait. Whatever you do don't rush into a commitment just because all your friends are settled and getting married. The right guy will be well worth the wait.
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