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Was she snogging for my benefit or did I over react?

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Question - (20 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 February 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *lubber79 writes:

Hi, just want an opinion on this one.

I was out last night and my ex was there. We don't really talk much these days but she is the sister of one of my friends so we will occasionally bump into one another.

I went to the toilet and she was standing nearby in a quiet area with another guy, near the exit to the pub we were in, I stopped and said hello how you doing etc and then carried on to the loo. When i came out she was snogging this guy and i was quite annoyed aboout this as it seemed like she did it for my benefit, or at least I'm thinking she could have waited till i had walked past and been back upstairs and away from the area.

We have both seen otherpeople since thebreakup and i'maware that she has been having fun which doesn't bother me but I was offended by her timing here. It seemed malicious or did i overreact?

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A male reader, Flubber79 United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2010):

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Agreed!! Tacky sums it up really. Lol.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2010):

i totally agree with you. When ever you break up with someone you have to realize that they...and hopefully you will be seing someone else. But it is just tacky that she decided to do that knowing that you were going to come out. It sounds to me like it was to make you jealous...or possibly to get you back for something. Either way you are better off getting away from her.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 February 2010):

It might very well have been malicious. But let it go. She's an ex and the worst thing to do is dwell on an ex.

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