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*armicIllusions
writes:My bf broke up with about a month ago but the truth is that it was sooooo sudden. He one day told me he loved me with all his heart and he even looked into my eyes and told me I was the one and that's he's never leave me ever that we were meant to be. (He said this cause he always said we'd end up getting married and having kids and shit. I never really like the idea but he just convinced me and he broke those dreams when he left. ) A day later he left me . We had a fight the day before and all I know is that I asked him who he was going with to the movies and he went buzzurk over it saying i didn't trust him and shit. We didn't talk for 2 days after that. I was kinda in the deffence note but it was only because he told me this girl was flirting with him and tried to kiss him...so i was kinda upset cause we don't go to the same school even less live in the same town. I know he was going strong with his studies and his SAT thing but like In the end I always gave him the time he wanted to study. His parents sometimes...most of the times if not every day gave him hell. He couldn't talk to me on the phone for more then 15 minutes ever 3 t 4 hours if not wait till 9. Rumor has it that his mom was racist and his dad was prejudice ( I knew it but the mom thing I didnt )when he broke up with me this was the chain Day one: He said he didnt love me anymore that he loved me as a friend .Day 2: He said he still loved me that those feelings for me would never change that I was still the one for him. ( Plus when he said it it was the first time in a while I'd heard my BF voice cause in the whooole week this was happening it was strange he seemed tensed and different, so it was the first time to actually hear the voice of the boy i fell in love with. ) He said he just needed time for studies that we should take it slow and not to treat each other as a couple but I pulled out an " i love you " from him and he got upset.Day 3: He tells me he doesn't love me anymore that he loves me as a friend but doesn't want me as a friend ( contradiction) and since then he doesn't even want to even talk to me not even in facebook. From what Ive heard he's been great but no one wants to give me a 100%, I ask around and no one has seen him with anyone other then his guy friends (that they know of ) and just nothing no info. I don't know if he cheated, if he was manipulated, if he was scared or just he stopped loving me..
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reader, snikneJBP  +, writes (2 June 2010):
It's not who you are underneath- It's WHAT YOU DO that defines you. Don't trust his words- believe in his actions. Go with your gut.
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