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writes: Hi, I'm a 26 year old female, had a long distance relationship with my man for five long years. We broke up recently. He was married with no kids at the time I became involved with him. He is still with his wife, and I left him because I felt he did not want me. I guess I made a mistake in believing a married man, and right now I don't want to spoil things further. I'm sure his wife has been really upset about all this, but trust me, there was never a time I wanted to hurt her. I realised that I should not break a happy home. It's wrong. I hope I did the right thing. I love this guy, I tried to get over him. Some good memories are there and I cannot just forget what happened between us, but I have to let him go. Is it the right choice? We both have been in this relationship for over 5 years since we met. I live in Fiji and he is Australia. I let him go; was it the right decision???
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (13 April 2006):
 It depends if he was happy with his wife and if they had a future together. well done for thinking of these issues first, putting others before yourself, you're a common saint. There is someone out there for everyone, he probably isn't your someone as he got marreid to someone else! One day you will meet someone and there'll be a spark, or connection. You are made to be loved by somebody.
You will find someone special just give it time
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): Yes, you made the right decision. He would not have left his wife for you because It had been 5 years that you had an affair with him and he still did not leave his wife.You are young and starting to wisen up about this guy. Deep inside you knew you had to let hm go. Move on with YOUR life and good luck.
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reader, Alexamanoo +, writes (13 April 2006):
You have to do what benefits yourself over what benefits others. However, if the man lied to you about being married for five years, then maybe your better off. I honestly think that it would be better to pursue intimate relationships closer to home; with people you can be affectionate with. I hope whatever you do, things turn out.
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