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He would rather spend time partying and I want out but how do I break up with him??

Q.   He would rather not spend more time with me but party/nightclub. I became attached to my boyfriend after 6 month dating, he claimed busy all the time, he is a MBA student. Everytime I want to be with him, he always gave me a list of things he need ...

A.   14 April 2006: This person sounds exactly as you described him. Arrogant and self-obsessed. I see not much other choice than to break up with him myself. You have to think what YOU really want. You know that what YOU want is him out of your life. YOU need to take ... (read in full...)

Can a girl love a guy she has asked for a break from??

Q.   My girlfriend recently asked me for a break to reasess the relationship and her feelings. We have been arguing alot lately.Is it because her feelings have changed and she doesnt love me anymore, or because she does but is just frustrated? Can a girl ...

A.   14 April 2006: Of course she can. However it is not completely certain. Again, she probably needs to think about the reltionship a bit. Take a step back and see if these arguments are normal, or whether there really is something not right. Take this as a chance ... (read in full...)

I am 13 and dating but how can we loosen up and be less shy??

Q.   Please help, i have just started going out with a boy. Im 13 and so is he. i dont know why but whenever i meet up with him we both go really shy. We sort of like a frigid couple, we havent even held hands yet! Llease help me and give me some adv...

A.   14 April 2006: I think that yeah, you too are just very respectful towards each other and taking it slow, or maybe you don't know him as well as you could. The obvious answer to this is to try hard to find as much as you can about him. If you think you know each... (read in full...)

Caught in the middle of my two friends fighting over a boy!!

Q.   Recently my bestest best friend-lets call her Amy- got a huge crush on a boy a year older than herself(call him Rob) who no doubt, she is great friends with. They hang out alot and recently worked closely in a school show. Amy is obssed with Rob and ...

A.   14 April 2006: Okay, this must be hard for you. However, I think that boys will come and go for the three of you but you three as friends can last forever. I these two people have forgotten their own relationship, you need to remind them that this guy is just a ... (read in full...)

I am in love with and doing oral stuff with my sisters bf!!!

Q.   I'm really worried. My 18 year old sister has a 17 year old boyfriend who i really love. I'm more compatable with him than she is and lately we seemed to be getting on really well (i'm 14) and we're great friends. The thing is a while ago when he ...

A.   14 April 2006: I see how hard this must be for you. Don't do it again! In my opinion, he is just intersted in sex with you. Even if it is only oral. Again, he's bad enough fooling around with his girlfriends 14 year old sister. I think you should end this with ... (read in full...)

Was I right to break it off with my married Australian guy?

Q.   Hi, I'm a 26 year old female, had a long distance relationship with my man for five long years. We broke up recently. He was married with no kids at the time I became involved with him. He is still with his wife, and I left him because I felt he ...

A.   13 April 2006: You have to do what benefits yourself over what benefits others. However, if the man lied to you about being married for five years, then maybe your better off. I honestly think that it would be better to pursue intimate relationships closer to ... (read in full...)

Designer Vagina, what do you think?

Q.   i posted before as well, but didn't get any replies...I wondered what people think about "designer vaginas" I feel like my vagina is strange. My labia are huge and wrinkled and dark and it is basically embarrassing. I have done some research on ...

A.   13 April 2006: I haven't had this kind of surgery, mainly because I'm a teenage boy! But in my opinion, again, during sex, if you just relax and not concentrate on your bad traits, your partner will see through them too. Play your strengths, and if you can't do ... (read in full...)

I like this guy at work, but don't know if I should make the first move!

Q.   I am a single mother of 2.nobody in the office knew that i have already divorce.I have notice this SHY man who is 5 yrs younger than me in my office(from different dept).I have tried to notice that he has been watching me occassionly. I tried to ...

A.   13 April 2006: In life, you just have to accept what happens. You can't predict what is going to happen in the future, so just have fun and enjoy the ride. You'll never know until you find out, so if you think you need to make the first move, do so. Ask him out ... (read in full...)

We're both 14, but he thinks I'm too young to go out with him...

Q.   I liked this guy for ages and just found out he likes me too - but he won't date me because he says I'm too young! He's nearly 15 and I'm 14. I've tried to persuade him but I don't want to go too far unless I annoy him. What should I do? How can ...

A.   13 April 2006: Well he is a bit of an idiot, but... If it really seems that he's not intersted, then move on. You have to. If he's obsessed with the minute age difference then you're better off away from him. I don't know. He likes, you but doesn't want to date ... (read in full...)

Should I try and take it further at the risk of our friendship?

Q.   heyy heres the thing. theres this guy *dean. i only met dean at the start of the school year and our personalities clicked straight away. so now were the best of mates and i love him to pieces. but recently some of our other mates have been sayin we ...

A.   13 April 2006: If you never try, you will never find out. The future is not ours to tell. As you go through life, leave no stone unturned. Let me tell you, nothing worth having in life comes easy and you have to take the chance if you really want to be with him. ... (read in full...)

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