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writes:I'm a 37 year old single guy, a supposedly talented creative/producer who after earning my degree in Art and Design, went on to a career starting as an east end ladies underwear seller on a market, to butcher, to retail display, to head bartender, to film art dept assistant, to special fx artist on oscar award winning movies, to live event contruction and design, to soldier, to head of design for 4 leading event agencies, then to MD of my own event company, to eventual total coccaine and alcohol addiction, losing everything: friends, lovers, serious relationships along the way and on and on. Enter my last girlfriend, a lithuanian 9 years tounger than me who over 4 years left me twice because I constantly found images of guys dicks on her phone after taking it off of her in drug/drink fuelled fights, she always thought it was ok to do this kinda of thing because of the way I was acting. She left me again 6 months ago, I gave up everything started getting my career back, paying her back all the money I had taken when I was out of control, I am apparently very attractive and still look 10 years younger than I am, but after everything I still love her, she talks 2 me like shit and sends me sexy texts but hasn't made a move in over a year with me. She tells me she hasn't ever been with anyone else since we 1st met, but even now still blocks me a s friend on FB when she is friends with most of her ex's and even her landlord. Am I just being a total twat thinking that she did ever or still does love me? She is the 1st girl I never cheated on, but she said that spending all our money when I was a mess is the same. I'm getting back on track, but I miss what we had before so much still, any comments???
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reader, LLindy87  +, writes (8 August 2010):
 she might have, only she can tell you that. But let me speak from first hand experience, drugs does ruin love. It can come back, I'm not talking about a in love relationship of my own, but my father was a coke addict and my view of him changed completely...it wasn't until he cleaned up that I learned to forgive and forget, but of course that's easier with family than romantic relationships.
however, she did not have a right to cheat on you. There is never a good reason for cheating, and unless those penises were professional porn pictures of guys she really doesn't know in real life, she cheated in some sort of form.
the facebook thing is a bit weird, but if you ended badly, blocking you is understandable. maybe her other exes didn't end badly with her?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (8 August 2010):
 Concentrate on getting yourself back totally together and staying sober. If she's meant to be back in your life, she'll be back one day.
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