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writes: I got chatting to a guy who i am seeing at a school reunion on a social chat network. We got on quite well, just friendly and then started texting, some of it flirty, some of it not. On Friday night on my way home from an evening out he rang me for a chat and we chatted for half an hour about all sorts of things. On Saturday he text me and sent a text message of i will speak to you later babe 381. He had gone out with his friends and told me he had something to tell me when he was home and asked me to go on the computer. He had got his friends to put his photo up and we then sat chatting and obviously he was drunk but he then told me all about him and then he rang me and we were talking for an hour and half on the phone. I asked him what 381 one was and when I worked it out it was i love you and i said you can't love me you only know me as a friend and he just laughed about it.The next day he text me but he started getting silly in them and when i spoke to him on chat he was quite rude so i came off. He then text at 1.00am in the morning to ask if i was still up. I sent him a text message and was rude to him back saying you either be a proper friend or go away. He didn't reply so i said well i obviously annoyed you so we won't be speaking at the reunion this weekend. he text me back saying he had alot on (i took that as a get stuffed sign). When I logged on later to the facebook site he went on there a few times. I ignored him on purpose and then later he said hi to me and i said you are talking to me now and he said i have got alot on. I said i am sorry i annoyed you and he said no you didn't. he didn't want to speak to me on the phone, replied once more and then when i said something he signed off. So i thought stuff it, i deleted him as a friend and told him that i wasn't going to bother him anymore.I assume all of this happened because he was drinking but he seemed quite happy to chat with me but did give me the usual i haven't chatted to anyone like this in ages and i hope you are good laugh like this when i see you.So I am not going to make contact any more and i will stay away from him, but have i done the right thing. Was he just after one thing with me.
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