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writes: i may have found out my b/f lied through him giving me information. He is able to take a day off in the middle of the business week and work saturdays.. He told me today if he is going to do that, he needs to be pretty much dressed as if he is going to work b/c when he calls in at a certain time and they say no you can't today--he would need to go in.Well a couple of months ago, i think we had a little argument over something, i forget exactly what and i dont think it was anything huge..but i called him that night and no answer..i called a few times i think...the next morning i call him at about 9 am thinking he is at work and he is at home..and i said how come you didn't pick up and he said i did not hear it, it was downstairs and i said well why do you have your phone now..and that is when he got mad and he said jesus, i went downstairs and got my phone to call work earlier. He got mad that i questioned him like this. But---just a few days ago he tells me he would need to be dressed even though he wants to call in just in case they say no. And he tells me this particular time he is still lying in bed. So was he cheating on me, lying to me?
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (9 March 2007):
Yes i get what your saying, he says he needs to be pretty much dressed for work encase they said no. Yet that day he stayed in bed and didnt get ready. Perhaps he was certain he would get the day off, maybe he had already checked with the boss about it but phoned in to make sure. I wouldnt edzactly acuse him of cheating. Just say about if hes ment to be dressed for work encase they say no why was he still in bed that morning that you phoned him, be jokey about it. Make sure you can see his faceual exspression as you say it. Checking to make sure he doesnt look worried. You could always add ''your just lazy'', to try and lighten things up if they start getting a bit arguementative. It does sound a bit like you could be paranoid, you should be careful as you can loose people that way.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 This is a very complicated set up. To be honest if this is all you have to go on I wouldnt say there is anything up. Maybe he didnt hear the phone. Why are you so suspicious of him? has he given you reason to doubt him? Whatever the reason you would need alot more evidence than this to think he is cheating.
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