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writes:Hi everyone , i am 28 years old male ... virgin ... Yes i am , i am also heavy weight guy around 186 cm hight and 150kg heavy , my woman told me while talking about sex that she LOVE to give me head and she really get turned on by that , i my self would love if not dying to [reciprocate], issue here that i feel so afraid of her giving me a head due i am fat , my penis is not that super size and i have a lot of fats , my testes are not big either they are small in fact , the biggest thing that makes me so uncomfortable about this is my penis is only around 4inch erected and i feel ashamed of that and afraid she will think i have a small penis , we are going to get married in next may we still have a lot of time to build things up but i don't know if it is a good idea to tell her that or not , is it really for a woman giving oral is about a man with average or big penis for her to be happy ? i am so disappointed of my self for this also makes me feel so unattractive ...ps: my penis is around 10cm long and 13.5 cm wide , ofc a lot is still hiding in fats . i hate my self for being fat even that i am working so hard to lose weight .
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reader, kylieekristina  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 You'd be suprised how much confidence in a man can make a woman very turned on.... alot of us achieving an orgasm comes from our mind, not your penis size. If you make her feel beautiful and really pay attention to her body and what its telling you it likes your penis size shouldn't be an issue. Women can achieve an orgasm many different ways and I'm sure she loves you enough to explore them together. Quit worrying about your weight....I'm sure she has already pictured you naked, its natural when its your soon to be life partner, and she is marrying you.....so stop worrying. Everyone is attracted to something different sweetie....you are obviously what does it for her.....REMEMBER THAT!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Relax.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (2 June 2011):
 She is marrying you, not your penis!You mentioned you are getting married next May. Are you going to wait to have sex until you are married?Talk to your future wife about your fears of not being "enough" for her. I think you will be suprised that she accepts ALL of you and does not just value you for a part. Good marriages are based on trust, love, and affection. There are MANY ways to give and receive affection and sexual satisfaction. You have a year to lose weight (and yes losing weight will make things look bigger and be easier to engage in sex).You are nervous about this new part of your life and that makes you NORMAL. Most people are nervous the first time they try something new, especially IF they are being judged on a personal ability!If you love each other and are excited about your future marriage, you are going to talk about and solve many problems together. It sounds like your future wife looks forward to pleasing you. Does she know you are a virgin?Best Wishes.
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reader, j29  +, writes (2 June 2011):
Don't be embarrassed, and There is no use being worried about it, that will only make it worse, if you say you are trying to lose weight very good,for starters you all need to communicate, if you are gonna be married you all need to communicate or just forget this marriage thing, express your concerns etc, find out her views on these matters, some woman dont have a problem with penis size, its either she loves you for you or for your penis,but you definitely need to talk about this with her, every woman has their preference, some dont mind, but you need to find out what your woman wants. There are sex positions that work for persons with small penises so you can look them up. All in all you need to talk to her. good luck
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